Spoilers follow.
Having just watched it this weekend, I can't see where anyone can leave the theater with the idea that there was some sort of feminist agenda. Also, it wasn't that capitalism is bad, it was that war profiteering was bad.
As far as female leadership, (spoilers follow), Leia almost died, the other female general did die, and the female tech almost died. In the end, Luke sacrificed himself to allow everyone escape.
This was the best Star Wars movie since The Empire Strikes Back.