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Temporary insignia may be placed on the right pocket, or the back of MB sashes. Encourage your boys to take advantage of those in their award design. An easy one would be ribbons with a button hole.

Jim, hang in there. Clearly some parents didn't get the memo. It sounds like you spend a lot of time trying to be polite. There's nothing wrong with asking "So, what will you do to help ?" Give the parent a call and let them know that you'll miss their boy and when they have time to contribute to the life of the pack, you'd be happy to see them. Or don't. Tell the DL her life just got a little easier.

Or, you could teach your son how to respectfully disagree with these old farts. He could request to talk to the SM. Or since he had his SMC's. He could request a BoR. At the BoR, he can say what about this process he felt was unfair. Based on your description ... 1. Knots, well yeah his bad. Every 1st class scout should know his knots, but now that he does, he feels qualified to take his patrol hiking and camping. 2. He finds it hard to believe that misplacing the titles of two declarations betrays any unwillingness to live by those declarations. 3. Sock selection was added to

Have them draw their organizational chart. Compare it to the one in the troop committee challenge manual. That said, if someone wants one of the jobs, let them have it.

SN, my specific suggestion to the GS mom was to have a couple of guys set up a demonstration that she could walk the cadets through and the boys could tell stories about what works (or not) for them. Conversation fell flat. I really don't know what's rattling around in peoples' heads, so I decided to not press the subject until I heard other folks' experience. The young lady is one of my crew, and she knows the topic from from older siblings and friends (mostly venturers), but never had time to participate in the activity. The stars haven't lined up with her and my female adult leaders. S

Well, s717, if the young lady is an avid outdoor cook and nobody in our troop has ever tried anything mor complicated than Pop tarts and Ramen .... mOst definitely yes! Som #2 and I just heard this story. If any of you in WI have an opportunity to invite this young lady to talk to your unit, open your doors to her!

Actually they lined up a male venturer for the aquatics area. He was the only one available with guard certification. This not an issue where safety will be compromised. It's more a matter of lining up a teacher from personal experience.

Some of my venturers are organizing an awesome camporee for their GS district. They are doing a great job. They asked me to help out with map and compass ... seeing that I have spent more time "getting found" than anyone they know, it's a good choice on their part. However, one of the topics that they will cover is not in their field of expertise. I suggested to their GS leader that some of our male venturers might be better suited to instruct a topic, but she was very could to the idea. Instead one of the girls will teach it based on her book-learning. Previously, female venturers have t

It's like I have an evil twin. Question ... do any of your boys want to be den chiefs? I think you know where I'm going with this.

KDD, if this matters to your son. (It may not. He may want to keep his new buddies all for himself!) Here's what you do ... 1. Talk to the lodge officers about any upcoming service opportunities. 2. Ask your son which ones he thinks would be cool. 3. Have him call his buddies next day and say "Hey, since you bailed on me today, I didn't know what to sign us up for, but I thought it would be cool if we did ___ together, so I put your name down. Hope you don't mind!" 4. Direct mom to this forum and encourage her to submit a topic "Pushy scout voluntold my son!" Other scouters on

Fellowship time is no longer valued. "Did you like your time?" Mom asks while surfing her phone. "Yes! Great people, I really felt welcome." Son replies. "What did you do those last few hours?" Mom asks when the kitten video ends. "Not much. Watched a movie, chewed the fat." Son half-heartedly replies to a half-hearted conversation. "That's nice ..." replies Mom absently while checking any new recipes. "Yeah." Son says walking over to the game console to see if the latest mod for World of Warcraft comes out. Mom thinks to herself, "Well, that group is a real time waster. Go

Now an unsuspecting scoutmaster haunted by this latest batch of crossovers ... That would be a scary flick!

We did this for a while when we had large numbers and lots of dads who really liked to camp. It really only lasted for a couple of outings. The advantage was it actually got us out of the boys' hair. We didn't mind being accountable to the SPL. And we could cook up a storm! The disadvantage was not every adult wanted to uniform and nobody really wanted to compete with the boys, so we disbanded before we could create our own patch and flag. Boys appreciate us being available to assist them. They appreciate us doing our own creative things. They don't appreciate us imitating them.

My opinion from the cheap seats: a UC's usefulness depends on the unit's interest in external inputs, the SM's availability/ability to respond to external inputs, the UC's network of inputs, and the UC's awareness of his own boundary's. Those are a lot of factors beyond knocking on three doors every week, and a UC is only going to commit to where those things are in place. Districts with lots of units lakcking those factors are gonna have a hard time getting scouters to volunteer as UCs. If your unit is in such a district, unless you're failing, you won't see your UC much at all.

SGeek, Your question was about handling future instances. So that's what I answered. Some further thoughts ... Of course the other issue is patrol method and camp etiquette. In a perfect world your troop would have about 10 patrols 300' apart. It'd be nice if you always had that 200 by 300 yard postage stamp of land! That distance makes it pretty clear to a boy where he does or does not belong. But, I suspect you all are usually crammed pretty tight ... and by the sound of it, this was summer camp and therefore even more crowded. In these circumstances, boys need to be taught camp etiqu

Now you're putting words into his mouth, Stosh. I suspect if the boys took it in rotation (the owl handling taps; the lark, reveille), Os448 would shell out for two patches. He might count time served as 1/2 the duration per boy in office, but that's a different thread ...

Yeah. Stand by your boy. There is no way he should have to answer to a bunch of adults. Have the SPL and PL take time to talk with the boy THAT day. Tell the blowhard SM that if he has issues, he can have his SPL take it up with your SPL. Since you didn't suspend the scout, and if wandering off is a chronic problem that the boy has, you need to prep him for a rough board of review.

Yah, hmm. I intended the question to be something "in between the lines". Based on some previous posts, scouters were inferring about what qualifies as a good project. (A few years ago there was an obsession over man-hours.) I'm not trying to be judgmental here, but if you don't have Life (and lower rank) scouts coming to you asking about project ideas, you're just weird. And if the only reply is some quote from a workbook, you're even stranger. This question not a policy quiz, it is about how you advise your candidates in the context of how your troop runs. Although he clearly didn't v

Then the letter should come from the Skipper. It's good that you all are sharing the leadership burden. But boys will be equally humiliated if they think they have to face down a committee of adults.

If the boy wants to survey invalids, let him!

Sometimes the discussion in other threads comes off critical of certain projects because institutions in our communities often are prepared with nuts in bolts in store ... all they need is someone to organize a labor force. That seems to make it easier for the boy (although sometimes I suspect it complicates things). When you advise your Life scout, what do you suggest regarding his project's scope/challenge should be? Discuss.

H2O, just keep in mind 1. Someone before you took risks while you were a youth member in their unit. 2. Other organizations have skeletons, and their small numbers allow them to keep things closeted quite well. 3. Your depth of leadership shielded you from false accusations. 4. The situation is no more delicate because the CC's boy was a perpetrator. 5. It takes a while for emotions to subside when things like this happen. 6. Success is still possible. I would not split hairs over defining hazing or not. Conspiring to deliver blunt force trauma to fellow scouts needs no other

Really? You tell your denner to organize your SFF? Make the calls to council, read any guidelines, mobilize a volunteer to pick up collection boxes and bags, schedule the event, make flyers, announce it at pack meetings, call volunteers, tally collection, arrange for food bank pick-up? All with minimal adult guidance? I'd love to meet that cub! (I have met some brownies who almost could lead in that way!) Just like any project, you are looking for how much the boy's hand is on the tiller and his capability of learning from it. That said, if all of the Eagle projects in your troop are beg

It's nice to hear that it's not just our kids who drive hard till they drop! (But then again, mad dogs an Englishmen are out in the noonday sun. ) Prevention by prodding is not enough. Part of prevention is helping youth self-assess. This requires preparation via first-aid training regarding signs and symptoms. Then coaching during the event. E.g. "That headache you're feeling right now, I wonder if it's related to anything we might have talked about in first aid class?" I had an entire crew who was functioning flawlessly for 6 hours of hiking come to a cross-roads and had the dickens of a ti