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As said above, family time and duties need take first priority. That said, the enrichment and satisfaction you bring back into the family from Scouting can not be obtained in any other way. Your Scouts will , if allowed, become new sons and daughters. Make sure your spouse has little reason to feel jealous of your time and attention to these surrogate sons and daughters . Include her in all your plans and do not let her be "surprised". More than one "real" son/daughter? Make sure your time and attention to all your family is evenly and appropriately spread. Do not forget important anniversaries/dates. Smile lots. Hug lots. Compliment lots. Leave the toilet seat down. Come back from hikes and camping trips dirty but happy to be home and SHOW it. As said above, develop your "staff" and delegate, delegate. Allow others to take responsibility and compliment them when things go right and be sympathetic when things don't. Communicate. Talk. Listen, without judgement, listen. To your "bosses" ::: Wife, work, family, yourself. See thee on yon trail....

True story: Scoutson joined the Troop of my Scout years, much to my approval. They went hiking/camping quite often. To celebrate his "crossing over", we told him he could pick out anything in the store as a present. He already had a good backpack/frame, sleeping bag, cook set from other trips. So, he picked out a 5 D cell Maglight. For camping? Well, he chose it. Took it on one (one) 5 mile overnight hike.... after that, it sat in our pantry for backyard work....

Welcome to the Forums, EF. Yes, lots of changes in the past few years. Many are somewhat foreign to some "old timers", some "about time". The Scout Promise and Scout Law have been the same since first promulgated. If you look at the history, (google Is your friend), the changes in the Law definitions are instructive. The Law Titles are the same. The Scout Promise (or oath) of the BS of A has not changed in the more than 100 years since it's creation, which has to mean something, I think, of it's universality. As to your experience since becoming an "adult" (welcome to the rank of "citizen") , yes, there have been some welcome adjustments. Perhaps the elimination of the Cub Law of the Pack and Cub Promise in favor of the more mature Scout Law and Scout Oath (or Promise) is a problem. Perhaps not. It is asking the Cub Scout to become more mature in their consideration of their activities. Less story (Jungle Book? Rudyard Kipling? ) and more real life? Personally, I am not so sure the elimination of Kipling's stories as a basis for Cubs mythology (regardless of his perceived 19th century politics) is necessary or needed. Every society has actively told their sons and daughters stories to help in the creation of Good Citizens. Proverbs? Biblical stories? Aesop's Fables? One is left wondering "what is Akela? Why is BALOO the training title? " Sic Gloria mundi.... You, sir, I can tell are a future Scout Leader, whatever your status in local Pack or Troop society today. At school, the kindergarteners are taught to memorize the alphabet, their numbers, names and addresses, the Pledge of Allegiance , often the reason for the need for these things come after the poem recitation. . Can you still sing the alphabet song? It is often the same thing in Scouts. Memorize the TLHFCKOChTBC and R and later we will discuss the WHY and the WHAT of those words. There is an old "Star Trek" episode that concerns long ago created words, memorized and deified but without remembering them correctly or the reasons for them. That is what the Scouter has as his/her duty, to pass on , by demonstrated behavior to emulate and by overt instruction to understand, the Scout Promise and Scout Law. That's where YOU come in. Be the Scout you want your Scouts to be. They will see and understand, more than you may realize. More than you can explain or instruct. Your behavior is ultimately more important than your words. Trust me in this. See you on the trail.

I first read this about 1980 and was moved to transcribe it... *(( The true author of this article is unknown. It is here copied from the COME HOSTELING newsletter, Sept. 1980, of the Potomac Area Council of the American Youth Hostels, who received it from Dick Schwanke, Senior PAC Staff Trainer, who read it in the APPALACHIAN HIKER by Ed Garvey, who got it from the Potomac Appalachian Trail Conference Bulletin, which quoted it from THE RAMBLER of the Wasatch Mountain Club of Salt Lake City, which reportedly cribbed it from the I.A.C. News of Idaho Falls, which reported it from the 1966 PEAKS & TRAILS. I offer it here for your enjoyment and inspiration. Note that some of the ingredients are a bit dated. Adjust as necessary. Enjoy!)) "Courageous Cookery" by John Echo* Once the convert backpacker or cycle camper has accepted the subtle gustatory nuances associated with sustained operations beyond the chrome, he should try the advantages of ultra fringe living so that he will realize what he is paying for his nested pots and pretty pans carried so diligently and brought home so dirty after every "wilderness experience". The following system works. It is dependable and functional. It works on the big rock. It even works when the weather has gone to hell, you are wet and cold and the wind is blowing down the back of your hairy neck. It is not for the timid. It consists of a stove, a six inch sauce pan, a plastic cup and a soup spoon. If you insist on a metal cup, you must never fail to mutter "I'm having fun, I'm having fun", every time you spill the soup on your sleeping bag. Breakfast: Instant wheat cereal-- sugar and powdered milk added-- ready two minutes after water boils. Eat from pot. Do not wash pot. Add water, boil, and add powdered eggs and ham. You'll never taste the cereal anyway. In three minutes, eat eggs. Do not wash pot. Add water or snow and boil for tea. Do not wash pot. Most of the residue eggs will come off in the tea water. Make it strong and add sugar. Tastes like tea. Do not wash pot. With reasonable technique, it should be clean. Pack pot in rucksack and enjoy last cup of tea while others are dirtying entire series of nested cookware. Lunch: Boil pot of tea. Have snack of rye bread, cheese and dried beef Continue journey in 10 minutes if necessary. Dinner: Boil pot of water, add Wylers dried vegetable soup and beef bar. Eat from pot. Do not wash pot. Add water and potatoes from dry potatoe powder. Add gravy mix to taste. Eat potatoes from pot. Do not wash pot. Add water and boil for tea. Fortuitous fish or meat can be cooked easily. You do not need oil or fat. Put half inch of water in pot. Add cleaned and salted fish. Do not let water boil away. Eat from pot when done. Process can be done rapidly. Fish can even be browned somewhat by a masterful hand. Do not change menu. Variation only recedes from the optimum. Beginners may be allowed to wash pot once a day for three consecutive days only. It is obvious that burning or sticking food destroys the beauty of the technique. If you insist on carrying a heavier pack, make up the weight you save with extra food. Stay three days longer.

I get the distinct impression that modern packs will not have the longevity of older, canvas ones. My original BSA Yucca pack is now permanently attached to the war surplus plywood (!) GI M4 pack board. I used this from about 1960 thru 1980.... I think the internal frames are very comfortable to carry, but not very adaptable. You are fairly limited to their pockets, very little to tie extraneous things to. Diamond hitch is becoming a archeological artifact. I presently use ( when I need to walk) a REI pack frame with a generic pack bolted (real bolts!) to it, or a Kelty pack and frame of unknown vintage,, given to me by a friend. Next in the mix is my 2013 Nat Jam duffle, which is overly commodious and can be shoulder packed. The Kelty and REI packs are sturdy, but thread worn. The GI packframe and Yucca pack combo is still useable, if heavy in comparison to the more modern gear.

"" There are two ways of spreading light: To be the candle or the mirror that reflects it."" = Edith Wharton =

We are way too far away to advise on this. Your Trail to First Class camp is a local aberration. It sounds like what we call a "Scout Skills Weekend" (SSWe?) . Check with your local camp folks. I would agree, Totin'Chip should be among the offerings. Check with your District Training Chair, see what they do for the Intro to Outdoor Leader Skills (IOLS) for nascent ASMs and BALOO folks. Might could be a Scouter there could come to your TTFC and help out. As it happens, I do Wood Tools at our IOLS. My dad was a timber cruiser in his young days, and I inherited all his axes and crosscut saws and such. I no longer heat with wood, (wish I could) but did some years ago. Taking down a tree, cutting, splitting is very satisfying work. Doing it SAFELY and efficiently is where the skill and satisfaction comes in. Good Scouting to you, bcbro123.

The Charter Agreement requires at least five Scouts to start.....

Too Tall For Cooking? Tiny Tim Forgot Cranberries? The Time For Credit?

bcbro123, "it depends". It depends on someone.... Someone has to set up the axe yard. Someone needs to provide the tools and bolts of wood. Someone needs to model good, safe, skilled behavior. Someone , experienced in such things, needs to Educate, Demonstrate, Guide , and Empower the Scouts. Someone must provide chances, opportunities, to practice their newly acquired skill. Someone….

The three words no Scoutmaster wants to hear.... "HEY ! WATCH THIS !" Would that be a male or female voice?

Once upon a time, in the dim past, back when "Internet" meant "between fish catching equipment", we had an invention called a "telephone". It was attached with wires to the wall, often sat on a small table next to the front door of one's house, or next to a parent's bed. Or, it might have been hung on a wall, say in the room equipped for heating up our Mastodon steaks.... It involved an assigned number, which was encoded into the mechanism , and when done correctly, enabled one to verbally communicate with a friend or relative, or even a store or other merchantile establishment. Connected plastic coated copper wires enabled the electrically energized pulses to be transmitted to other similar mechanisms, thus enabling human to human verbal communication. Such communicative devices enabled properly trained Scouts to arrange gear assignments, camp food allocation, purchasing arrangements, transportation requests and such germane to Scout adventure necessities. Someone , in the dim past, realized that if one person telephonically communicated with two other similarly equipped people (Scouts), and those two duplicated that effort to two more similarly equipped folks, and so on, a quick way to disseminate information and organization could be accomplished. Appropriately, this technique was named a "phone tree" (not to be confused with the rare but useful "Oakey Doke" tree of Naval fame...). It is appropriate to use these lessons from the past to educate and govern our future. Now, it would seem, the "phone tree" has become a "phone fountain" where not just two, but umpteen folks can be advised of the next meeting date at the same time by only ONE person. This in no way eliminates the need to be responsible in our dissemination of information, or the need to READ the email/tweet/etc. in a reasonable time. The Scouts (and some Scouters) I deal with seem to be AGHAST (aghast) that I may only read my emails only once, maybe twice a day. And not while I'm driving. Tweets? Yes, but don't bet on it being RIGHT NOW. Maybe later..... "Ahoy, ahoy. No, this is one. You want two. Yes, two. "

In 5th and 6th grade, we were taught how to outline. I remember Mr. Prentice talking about BIG things and littler things. I guess we made up our own "work sheets" for assignments. book reports, experiments, etc. Merit Badges, exercise records where the idea is gradually be able to do MORE chin ups, push ups, run a mile faster, etc. and be proud of seeing the improved record on paper ! Work sheets, per se, are not a bad thing, but if they take away the Scout's ability to "do for myself" then , yeah, bad thing. And it can take away somewhat, the ability of the MBCouselor/Den Leader to communicate with the Scout....

I am the Lawn Mower parent, but that's only because Scoutson is now 24 and there is no one else to mow the lawn.....

Oh good, an entry on the "Faith and Chaplaincy" forum.... Very appropriate. (maybe I'll make up a piece of tape to put over the wrong title...) It is appropriate to have the Scout think about who/what gave him/her their faith in a "higher power". Faith leader? Pastor? Clerk? Minister? Priest? Rabbi? Imam? Dad? Mom? Neighbor (Mr. Rogers was a Presbyterian minister)? I often come to think of the Hebrew National hot dog commercial.... Very often, the young person (and many older ones of my acquaintance) only consider their spiritual place in the universe if confronted with such a requirement. I have often needed to converse with folks who are aghast (aghast !) to be told that the BS of A is NOT an ipso facto Christian organization. But there you are. Many types of faith are exhibited at the Nat Jam and soon the World Jam. One of the most popular desks was the Sikh table, where Scouts could try on a turban, and talk about this exotic (to most Americans) faith. To be Australian about it, ItsBrian, "Good onya, mate...." and , no, I'm not Australian, but I like the sentiment.

I recently had a Scout email me (copied to his parents !) asking me to counsel him for a faith award. Since I was not of his faith, I emailed back, including the District Religious Awards Co-ordinator, the District Chair, and my faith committee's clerk. (more than two deep !) to suggest he should consult with his local minister/priest. We went back and forth a few more times, much multiple addresses included....

Concerning Social Media (so called)…. If it were my Troop, all I would do is congratulate the Scouts on taking "Scout Led" seriously, and remind them that the Scout Promise and Scout Law applies even in virtual space.... And if they ever need some counsel, I am here. Two deep.

"How Bear Lost His Tail” (and why the Big Bear in the heavens still has his ). (As told by the Iroquois) (( **Practice with appropriate motions and sounds and voices**....)) If you look up in the night sky, you will see pictures of the Great Bear, and his Cub. They both have fine, long tails. But if you go to the zoo, or walk thru the woods, you may see a REAL bear. How long is his tail? Not very ! Why this difference? Here is the truth of the matter…. Oh, my beloved:: Hear now the story as was told to me by one much wiser than I. Long ago, when the animal people would speak as you and I , Bear had a long and beautiful tail. He knew that, but set no store by it, being not as vain as some. Fox, on the other hand, also had a tail of some beauty and was not shy in telling of it. Indeed, Fox grew jealous of Bear's tail and decided he must rid himself of ( what seemed to him) unfair competition. And so this is what happened.... In the late fall of the year, when Fox knew Bear would be always hungry, before his long winter nap, Fox caught a nice fat Trout and sat himself by the trail where he knew Bear must travel. Sure enough , along comes Bear. "Hello, brother Fox", said Bear. " What is that you have there? A fine dinner, I see !" "Yes" Fox replied between bites, "It is my dinner." "And where did you catch such a fish? I might like to catch such for myself !" said Bear. "Over on the lake shore" said Fox. Now Bear knew such Trout were usually caught in a fast, cold stream, and not in a lake, so he was doubtful, and said: "Oh, I find that hard to believe. What bait did you use?" "My TAIL !" munched Fox. "Tail?? How so tail? " said Bear. "Why, I can show you. Follow me to the Lake." so the two walked off down the trail to the lake shore. Fox indicated a rock by the water's edge and said to Bear " See? This is where you sit. Stick your tail into the water and swish it around. When the fish bite on to it, pull out your tail and there you are ! Fish Dinner !" Bear was eager to have such a fine trout to eat, so he sat down and stuck his tail in the water and swished it around. "Like this?" He asked. "Exactly !" said Fox, who started to walk away. "But how long do I sit here?" asked the trusting Bear. "Until you catch the fish, silly!" said Fox, who smiled and ran off, very pleased with himself. Well, Bear became very pleased with himself that he would soon have a fine fish for eating. But the sun was setting and soon Bear grew drowsy. It was not long before Bear was fast asleep. Just as Fox had expected….. When Bear woke up, it was next morning, and lo ! The lake had frozen over in the night. Bear found his tail was frozen solid in the lake ice, and he realized the cruel trick Fox had played on him. There was nothing he could do, but tear his tail off as he sat up and go down the trail , painfully sad at this turn of events. Now, the Great Spirit Manitou had seen all this and took pity on Bear. In his dream that night, the Great Spirit came to Bear and said, " I cannot give you back your tail, but here is what I will do: I will make a picture in the sky so that all may see how long and beautiful your tail was, you and your cub. And henceforth, Fox will never again wave his tail high and proud in the air, but will carry it low to the ground. So shall it be. " And so it has been. So the Bear in the sky has the long, wavy tail; the Bear you may see in the woods or in the zoo, has a short stubby tail, and the Fox you see along the trail will not wave his tail in the air. Remember, and tell your Cubs , so they may be as wise as YOU !

Camouflage ! Oh, wait, not allowed in Scout uniform... Even so, with all the above comments about "official", "hiking" , "vintage", "Merino", ,,, I am surprised cotton (bad!) and plain wool rag (better!) hasn't been mentioned. My buddy from Scouts and I walked 600 km on the Camino de Santiago a few years back. I wore my 100% wool rag and he his silk liner/theromax(?) socks. I had no blisters a-tall, he had one on his big toe the last 50 km.

Did they also offer the Official BSA (c) elastic garter? I had them, BSA logo and all. Nicely made, elastic, leather, metal hooks, AND the red tab. Needed to keep those hose mos'ly over the tall Scout's (whose) calf. Soak'em in 6-12, keep the ticks away. Maybe. What percent cotton?

I would like to ask the moderators to transfer this thread/discussion to the "Faith and Chaplaincy" Forum. Oh, wait....

Ach du lieber…..

It has been discussed here and elsewhere for a Scout unit to have a "Behavior Contract" or a "Troop Constitution" or some such. The de facto Scout Behavior contract is the one each Scout is asked to renew at every meeting. The Scout Promise and the Scout Law. Each and every adult Scout Leader and Scout needs to measure their response to your son by those standards. Review those with your son, and allow him to discuss how they apply to his Scout buds and to him. How do these ideals help to create a desired atmosphere or world even? Yes, you and your Scout need to speak to the SPL and his Patrol Leaders Council. If they are not in this conversation, what duty do they have to react to your Scoutson's response to the perceived teasing and harassment and, yes , bullying, no matter how mild it may appear ? The Scoutmaster is missing a bet by not turning this opportunity into a "Scoutmaster's Minute". No names should ever be mentioned, but the Scouts and the adult leaders (Scouters) should get the message if it is presented right. If Mr. Scoutmaster is uncomfortable, or unable to see his role here, perhaps the school Counselor might be brought in, if possible to lend another perspective. Every Scout should be brought to the realization that the "Golden Rule" applies here and to everyone in this Troop. Should your Scout be made to "own" his behavior, his reactions ? Absolutely. Should the other Scouts be made to realize and "own" their behavior that triggers your Scout's reaction? Even more 'absolutely'. This is how the first world war got started, by people not realizing the triggers, and the reactions that can escalate ("But it was only a joke !" " I was just kidding !") into much worse. One man's hatred led to the deaths of 40 million (give or take....) young and old lives. Tell your Scoutson, I am sympathetic to his plight. Tell him for me, it will get better, and he can help others to make it better, with your help. See you on the trail.

Merlyn, I am in no way claiming you or your actions are immoral ! I did say that your previous education/experience had some effect on you AND that your thoughtful consideration led you to either accept or reject it. It is not logical (!) to claim religion as the basis of your present atheistic beliefs and I did not , so far as I can see, claim such for you. . People of faith do the same thing and obviously reach a different conclusion. They also went thru previous education and experience and (hopefully) thru thoughtful consideration, came to accept or reject or modify as they see appropriate to reach their present state of belief. Or disbelief. Even that great logician and deductionist Hercule Poirot finds worth in his inherited faith. Such is the blessing of an independent mind. And you, mon ami Merlyn, certainly have that !

Yep. Too dangerous. Gotta hire a specialist, trained professional to handle the pocket knife for the Cub...,. ((sarcasm app disabled)) If the DL thinks the real blade is too dangerous, then the Cub will pick up on that. Again, fortunate is the Pack that has an experienced craftsperson to teach safe handling and good tool useage. Respect the edge. Work SLOWLY (what is this about "let the kids work faster " ? ), carefully, SAFELY. Skill first, speed much later. Sharp edge? Yep, that's why we invented bandaids (c) . and mercurichrome. Or iodine. Or Bactine. If the "Safety Circle" is respected (arms length all around? That would mean about two meters between Cubs, that's a lot of space. So be it. I agree with GBB, and E94, one must train and trust. The Cubs pick up on THAT too. Do you trust them to "do the right thing"? And if they don't , what happens? Somebody gets hurt, and/or the privilege gets removed. That being said, I once supervised a Whitlin' Chip session at a Webelos Weekend. My Boy Scout crew did a great job, working with the Cubs, one on one. They used my collection of different pocket knives, folding, lockback, many different types. Handed around, learned to sharpen, open, close safely, etc. One Cub came up and said he wanted to earn the WC, but (he was very honest about this) expressed concern about handling such a sharp item. My Scout went and found a stick out in the adjacent woods that was the approximate shape of a knife, whitled it to good shape (what a neat demo!) , and used that with the Cub until he was ready to handle the real thing. result: proud Cub with a certificate to show his Cubmaster. (! that Scout earned his Eagle two years later. Deserved it).