I want to make a comment on the shirts - ONLY read the smoking portion.
Lets stick with small town mentality because that's where I am. We are leaders of young boys teaching them to be young men correct? If I am seen in public, at a restaurant, drinking a beer and one of my boys walked up to say Hi, well I would be devastated. Not that drinking beer is bad or should be frowned upon, I just choose not to drink period. I have stickers on my truck regarding Scouting and Camping, you will not see me cutting someone off because they will see my stickers.
Whether we are in uniform or NOT, we as leaders in our community have an image to up hold and that IMAGE is what brings boys in our doors.
I hope I answered that for you.