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Not what I wrote

"This is a crap piece that judges therapy based on stereotypes. Discard it." Did you actually read beyond the first paragraph? There are a number of areas discussed that should make us think a bit. While you may not agree, certainly there are valid points brought up; I have seen examples more than once. More than once we have seen over zealous theapists cause irrepairable damage to parents and families by convincing someone they have been mistreated in some manner, when in reality it was "planted" so to speak by the therapy sessions. The piece also goes beyond the actual therapy and touches on the general malaise in society of the self centered, egocentric individuals who do not understand the difference between freedom and license and think somehow they are not responsible for their own actions. We see related problems in the over-diagnosis of learning disabilities and prescribing of drugs to deal with difficult kids.

The link to Reason below discusses therapy and its repercussions on our ego-centric generation, as the author suggests. There are a number of observations that really do lend themselves to a serious concern with overdoing therapy. Certainly thought provoking I found. http://reason.com/archives/2014/05/27/could-therapy-culture-help-explain-ellio

Last year I wrote this "musing" for our troop site. It seems to me that it tries to address this to some extent. It certainly does reflect my personal approach pretty well. A SCOUT’S OWN At a recent cub scouting family campout, I had a parent who had been asked to do a “Scout’s Own†ask what he might consider in relation to his personal belief. When I tried to explain the need to be as general as possible in his comments, as he was not familiar with all the spiritual beliefs of the group, he admitted that would be difficult because of his own strong faith and the obligation he felt to make that known. I was unable to stay, but he was thinking about bowing out of the commitment because of his personal conflict. That may very well have been a good decision if he truly was unable to speak in a broadly spiritual manner; and it certainly showed to me his concern about others who might not like to be targets of proselyting. It seems important to me to attempt to shed light on this important and sensitive part of Scouting, the “Scout’s Ownâ€Â. That is the correct name; it is not a Scout’s Zone, as some have suggested. Scouting is nonsectarian in the matter of the scouts’ spiritual lives. As such, the term “Scout’s Own†means a period of inner reflection based on the personal spiritual belief of an individual scout or scouter. This reinforces the basic understanding behind the twelfth point of the law, Reverent: A scout is reverent. He is reverent toward God. He is faithful to his religious duties and respects the convictions of others in matters of custom and religion. Understanding that the word God or god has many possible meanings and interpretations is necessary in order to truly grasp the complete nature of this idea in scouting. Accepting almost all forms of spiritual possibilities reflecting a power greater than ourselves, and the place of the family in these concerns is paramount in Scouting’s spiritual tenets. Sometimes youth, especially those in adolescence, are in that personal searching stage of spirituality; and an aware leader will try to give them as much flexibility as they can in these matters. Only if an individual, youth or adult, absolutely refuses to accept any form of spirituality would be grounds for non-participation in Scouting. Doing “duty to God†is part of the Oath; each scout and scouter pledges this on his honor. Living up to the Oath and Law, to the best of our abilities, is the basis for how well we adhere to Scout Spirit. Scouters and Scouts need to regularly reflect on this, recognizing that their honor is tarnished when they do not do their best. Reverence is not the last law, it is the final point of the twelve parts. As a major component of the Scouting compass, it joins with the first point to tie them into a whole. Ponder this and turn inward and seek your personal Scout Spirit.

Duckfoot; This has been shared already in a number of various places. What you do not mention, is that they specifically DID NOT TAKE GOD OUT, they simply added an alternative for those that might have issue. "The existing core Scout Promise remains in place and The Scout Association remains fully committed as a Movement that explores faith, beliefs and attitudes as a core element of its programme." Further down, they again stress the core belief that reflection on spirituality is an important part of the program. [TABLE] [TR] [TD=width: 85, bgcolor: #f8f6fa]The ScoutMethod[/TD] [TD=width: 354, bgcolor: #fbf9fc]Scouting takes place when young people, in partnership with adults, work together based on the values of Scouting and: enjoy what they are doing and have fun; take part in activities indoors and outdoors; learn by doing; share in spiritual reflection; take responsibility and make choices; undertake new and challenging activities; and make and live by their Promise. [/TD] [/TR] [/TABLE] So, yes they are being flexible, even a bit more than they had been; but the core spiritual elements are still there and considered part of the program.

For some reason, I found myself reminded of the saying "Let go, Let God" as I read this. At the core, the biggest difference between the atheist and God believer is the willingness to let go of a part of themselves in understanding or Faith that there IS a power beyond themselves and their understanding. In between perhaps is the agnostic, who has not quite made an absolute decision in that regard. On the other hand, I am not so sure that atheists are not still agnostic in reality, due to their tendencies to question and search so hard for "rational" reason in relation to that power we sense beyond, but cannot quite comprehend.

Likely would not go anywhere, as it would very soon get taken over by argumentative individuals who simply do not want to discuss anything, but only agitate. That seems to be what generally happens with any of these threads. Then, I might be pleasantly surprised; nah!

Now those are some of the Scouting memories I can relate to. We had some odd ball songs back in the fifties too that would not necessarily pass courteous, clean, or even kind at times. But we were adolescents; what would you expect? Boy Scouts are still boys, even with the Oath and Law; and sometimes they will do what boys do.

It is not your horse to whip. The council should step in and clarify how this was allowed in the first place, as should the troop committee. Someone needs to make it clear to the ASM and leadership in general that they have NO authority to override the normal channels. And those on the OA staff who allowed it need to be retrained too, as there should have been a list of scouts that DID get elected and were invited to do the Ordeal.

17 year old Life Scout helps save home in San Diego area. Wow, another example of actual Scouting in action. http://www.cbs8.com/story/25545665/t...pay-it-forward http://blog.scoutingmagazine.org/2014/05/19/imagine-dragons-and-its-eagle-scout-lead-singer-score-5-billboard-music-awards/ And yet another.

Fred, while I know "some" polls recently have slanted slightly in that direction, I would wager that it was done in such a manner to encourage that slant. If a poll were devised that could be as neutral as possible, and not mention PC issues as part of the question in any way, I suspect the positive would still be substantially in the majority. How you take the political issues out of such a poll in today's society is a good question though, as we have relegated the large majority of the population into that "Silent" status, as they simply are too jaded or tired of the nastiness, so simply do not get involved. Just my view of course, but when only a third or so of possible voters even vote, and the poll makers have become so good at skewing the directions of such things both in wording and how they "select" their unbiased pools, we are very likely to not see a truly accurate response on many issues, not just this one. Of course, you are right we need to do some serious top down adjustments in general. Most importantly though, we need to put the membership issue where it applies, which is in each unit and the hands of their CO.

Unless the case to which the judge is assigned has to do with Scouting, why would it have any connection? And, if it was a Scouting related case, then they simply should be willing to recuse themselves. How hard can that rational and common sense idea be?

The problem is simply a society that thinks egocentricity is a good thing, and that cannot simply allow others to live their lives the way they wish. For some reason a lot of people think equal only applies to what they agree with. To me, they are just insecure within themselves; otherwise they would simply shrug and go on with their own lives. JMO of course:rolleyes:

Now on the AOL News links; and there appear to be more positive than negative comments, even on there, though are a few reprehensible ones as always. http://www.aol.com/article/2014/05/11/new-jersey-boy-scouts-escue-ann-curry-from-broken-ankle/20883858/?icid=maing-grid7%7Cmain5%7Cdl17%7Csec1_lnk3%26pLid%3D474961

Found this interesting, especially the parts that indicate that membership can be denied should someone not adhere to the premises of the group. So, if any of these is started in a public school or government related entity they are violating non-descrimination rules? Just wonder how this is any different thatn BSA or religious groups? http://www.secularstudents.org/sites/default/files/SSA_regulations_2013_1_24.pdf

Found this interesting, especially the parts that indicate that membership can be denied should someone not adhere to the premises of the group. So, if any of these is started in a public school or government related entity they are violating non-descrimination rules? Just wonder how this is any different thatn BSA or religious groups? http://www.secularstudents.org/sites/default/files/SSA_regulations_2013_1_24.pdf

A more complete story now from Bryan on Scouting. http://blog.scoutingmagazine.org/2014/05/09/new-jersey-scouts-help-rescue-nbc-journalist-ann-curry/

While some of the books published back then, mostly those never officially authorized in any manner by BSA, were preposterous and that is why they were not recommended officially, they were fairly standard boy pulp material. Most of the EBL titles had at least some semblance of scouting in them, though a bit of a stretch sometimes and not likely to be the norm. But, as noted, scouts and other older teens very often went out on their own back then, and the "real patrol" sometimes went sans adults on a regular basis. It was a different world with many youth activities that today would have someone arrested for neglect or child endangerment. In Scouting, they eventually modified controls for safer activity during the heydays of the forties and fifties. Now our society is so afraid of their shadows and litigation that we too often hold normal growing up back; and the results show every day in kids that have few if any skills, and are afraid to even try because of faux fears and lack of confidence from never being allowed to have real challenge. Of the EBL's 73 titles that are verified, some are handbooks and outdoor skills, and there are a number of noted authors in the mix as well such as Jack London, Jules Verne, and O'Henry.

Thanks Scouter99; Talk about "glaring" mistakes; Can someone with the ability please change the title to NBC vs NBC. Cannot believe I could have missed that; guess it was somehow just too much to think two basically from the same station could be so opposite. The question of course still remains as to why the "positive" story has yet to see the light of day outside of these boards and now some on FB?

Something that seems to draw attention is to mount representatives of pack or troop events on a board for meeting place display. Of course, the history of the unit is enhanced should you be fortunate enough to have some longevity, but even a short period is of interest. Our troop is over ninety years old, and we have met the same place since 1928; our meeting rooms are small museums. But you have to start someplace if history is of importance. The rest, use one or more of the the ideas noted already; cubs tend to like the patches more than scouts, other than the older OA collectors. We do not have OA stuff on the boards though.

While not the expert on stroke definition, I believe they are intended to be more or less the same. The difference is that in the test, they will accept a "version" of backstroke that allows you to rest and float, but is not necessarily "classic" elementary back stroke. The MB requires actually mastering the elementary backstroke. At least that is my interpretation.

Guess that is one way to look at it. On the other hand one must wonder if this is not a fake of some sort as it seems you are unable to find it on Google. It is on the local council FB site though. It would be interesting to know just how rough the terrain was, and how far they had to carry her. Does not sound like something just anyone would have been able to do. I am skeptical that it will get beyond some local coverage though, if at all. Where do you think we should post it, and how should we title, if we move it. I have no problem; maybe a title of Boy Scouts prove their worth, or something like that? Go for it and lets move it if that would be better.

Maybe Ms. Curry would share this with our friend from CBS?

Thanks for posting this; am ordering just to add to my related material from other sources.

Kind of funny, but I have a number of times had 16ish scouts in the front of the van tuning the radio, and more than a few times they end up on oldies or classic rock. Cannot get them to put on classical though.