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  1. Got here late (pant pant), sorry... As in much questionable behavior, three things are to be considered: the intention, the perception, and the reception. Others may never know the 'doers' true intention. The doer may not even be able to admit to it. Unconscious stuff may lead up to the action. This often involves deep psychologic stuff that ordinary Scout leaders might not want to delve in, probably don't even need to consider. But ultimately it is the act itself that will SHOW the intention. Sexual interest? Mere affection? Just congratulations? Centering attention? Which leads to consideration of the perception. Spectators/witnesses often see different things from their own viewpoint and background. (Italian hugs?) How did the act look? Was it too "over the top"? Was the act just one of several? Would it seem 'different' if it had happened between adults? (crawling into your lap?) Was it done in 'private' (or perceived to be alone?) or out in the open? The need to be free of blame is very important to adults that deal with children and so ones actions need to be free of POSSIBLE blame. It can't even LOOK wrong. Or even SEEM wrong. This has led to our TWO DEEP policy and windows in classroom doors and doing SM conferences in the room corner instead of off in a closet. Lastly and perhaps most importantly is the acts reception. How did the receiver of the act feel about it? Was it welcomed or resented? Was it appropriate to the situation or not? And because this is /are children we are considering, this includes the parent. Here's where the Golden Rule applies. Would YOU want this act done to yourself or to your child? Now let's see, as Scouters, we should encourage applying the Scout Law to our actions. Trustworthy? Courteous? Friendly? Kind? Brave? Clean? In our dealing with such problems we can probably apply most of the Scout Law in speaking with our fellow Scouters and in helping troubled youth. So what action do others take? Speak to the adult in question? Report it to the childs parent and/or SM and COR and CC and CH and DE? Report it to the legal authorities? Depends... but some action is always necessary if in YOUR mind, something WRONG happened. Don't let it fester in your mind until the time comes when you start thinking "if only I'd done/said something..." .
  2. Oh My, I forgot... Y'all GOT to go out and find/buy/rent/netflix: The Worlds Fastest Indian Stars Anthony Perkins. Motorcycles. Pursueing your dream. Overcoming obstacles. Way Opening. Age is not a problem but an advantage. God will provide. Have Faith. FAST motorcycles.
  3. 1965.... After my Gmoms death, my dad and his brothers were going to sell the old farm. Dad says "you ought to go over there and just see whats left of the old place". And so I do. Took along a buddy of mine for company on the adventure. Found old tractor parts, shovels, rakes, rotten away rabbit cages, And in the back of the barn, behind some hay bales... a Motorcycle. A Big Motorcycle. Looked like it was built of cast iron. Big yellow "X" on the tank. Whao, we said and dragged it out. Cotton cord tires rotting off the rims. Straight handle bars with no curve at all. Exposed lifters on the side of the engine. That is the engine, right? My buddy and I were pretty savvy about cars and trucks but this was new . Went home and told my dad what we had fouund. He perked up." That must be Arthur's (my Uncle Arthur. He had died 2 years before). He ordered it thru the mail. We picked it up at the Railway Express office, put it together on the loading dock out of the crate, and he rode it home. He drove it around for, oh, I guess two years, then parked it in that barn and it's been there ever since, I guess. That's a 1917 Excelsior." My buddy and I went back, huffed and puffed that antique into our truck and took it home for contemplation. The engine would still turn over with the kicker. Big brass headlamp, acetylene, broken. Gear shift lever between the legs. No cables, levers and linkages for the throttle on the right handlebar and the single right foot brake pedal. Nine feet long. Leather seat all but gone. And rust, rust, rust. Wheel spokes pittied, all but gone.Frame solid, springs solid but pittied. No license plate. And that big yellow and red "X" on the tank. My buddy's father was an antique car buff. He owned and let my friend sometimes drive to school a Humber! His advice was to sell it for parts, he'd get me some names. And so I did. Sell it. In my garage, a 1985 GT550 Suzuki, oiled and sealed, under a tarp, waiting for a new day. But that's another story...
  4. The church fathers (and mothers) were discussing which translation of the Bible should be the standard to use in the Sunday School. After all, one should avoid confusing the children. Should we use "consider the ant, thou sluggard" or "think about the ant, you lazy bones"? New International Version? Standard Revised? Good News Bible? An old respected Deacon was consulted. He replied "King James, of course. If it's good enough for Jesus, it's good enough for me." So: Which is the Authority? The printed word or the author of those words or the editor of the printing of those words... ...or the SPIRIT that inspired the writing and translation and editing and printing so ANYONE may read and see and know FOR THEMSELVES? * May God bless the proofreaders of the world *
  5. "Fascinating, Captain" And Bones and Kirk smile and wink at each other as Spock gets contemplative...
  6. "Brainwashing" I have come to the conclusion that we teach our children, either actively thru instruction OR passively by example (rather we realize it or not) a religion that they will either ACCEPT or REBEL against. That is THEIR role/duty and they will do one or the other, whether they consciously choose, it will happen. Accept Christ? Become a Wiccan? Om nio rengeyo? (Buddhist chant) They will pick up or discard what is useful, trendy, popular, logical, easy, available, but first they will see the religion of their upbringing. Ku Klu Klansmen have become Jews. Taoists have become Christian evangelists. Quakers have become Catholic priests. Rabbis have become Buddhists. And what does it all mean? Religion certainly DOES "inform" Scouting. BP was very right. Many times. I'll not quote him again. But ultimately, as to religiosity, yer pays yer metaphorical money and yer takes yer cherce. " It is a sad reflection, that many Men hardly have any Religion at all; and most have none of their own: For that which is the Religion of their Education, and not of their Judgement, is the Religion of Another, and not theirs." == William Penn == It is our duty as Parents to teach our children The Truth as we know it, and how to be responsible for the results of ones choices. They will soon enough discover their own Truth, and the results thereby will be theirs to accept as their own.
  7. My home Troop is sponsored by a Methodist Church. We have at least six different faiths represented therein. Our Chaplains Aide last year was from a Jewish family. He didn't come to Scout Sunday at the Methodist church, but he did some Chaplainy things thru the year. Our latest new member is Hindu. The only concern so far is how to respect the familly's dietary concerns on camp trips. (purely vegetarian. Wouldn't hurt any of us). It is a learning experience. I am Commishing a new Troop and Pack sponsored by an Islamic organization (not yet a full fledged mosque. A real learning experience). I am sometimes reminded of "Home Improvement", the tv show where Tim Allen (Taylor) lives next door to Wilson, whom we never see except across the top of his fence. The fence defines the two neighbors areas but the top allows conversation and enlightenment. Mostly Tim is enlightened, but it does go both ways. If the fence was any taller, there would be no conversation. If it was too low, there would be little differentiation and mebbe not as much curiosity. We make our fences too tall to our own detriment.
  8. (((mechanical breathing sounds))) Imperial Senate as CO? Bobcat... Wolf... At-At... Bear... Wookielos? " Akela... I am your... FATHER!" " Pinewood Sand Crawler Races? " Duty to THE FORCE and PLANET Awards? " Is Belt Loop or no Belt Loop... Is No suspender" Don't forget Jabba the Pizza (oops, wrong movie)
  9. Search out the old radio skit done by Jack Benny and Mel Blanc ("voice of Bugs Bunny"). With some CS talent, or adult talent, you might recreate it with suitable background. In synopsis, it runs something like this: Jack plays a tourist and stops to ask directions. The Mexican fellow says: "south" "Say, whats your name, signor?" "SYE" "Your name is Sye?" "Si" "And we should go south?" "Si" "Is the road rough?" "So-so" "Do you have a family?" "Si" " Any brothers or sisters? "Si" "Well, what are their names? "Sue" "You have a sister named Sue? "Si" "Anyone else?" "Sam" ... And so on. Gradually, with excruciating exactness, we learn that Sye works sewing, lives in Sienna, feels so-so, is cinco years old (!), and carries his lunch in a sack. You get the idea. KiS MiF
  10. "Scouting is like a box of chocolates... You never know just what you'll git." Units/leaders that 'alledgedly' don't follow the 'official' BSA program: The poor DE is judged by how the number of Scouts and Units rises and falls in his District. Will he be quick to reccommend the Charter or membership be pulled? On the other hand, we have the poor case of Chicago Area Council and it's camps. Do the LDS folks follow ALL of the "program" or just what they need? The BSA program is what one sees it as being. Is it the 'Handbook' or the 'Fieldbook' or the raft of 'long versions' of the various 'regulations and policies' we hear quoted in these forums? Or is it something more amorphous? What was BP thinking? I kind of like the idea that not all Scout units fall from the same cookie cutter. But the ideal is out there, somewhere, isn't it? I guess my ideal is the first SM that I had as a Scout. He was the sit by the campfire with his pipe sort, gently reminding us about the ideals that we should strive for. The Promise and the Law. Some of us Scouts found out that even the family we came from didn't much match those ideals, and so had to figure out which to follow, which held the greater reward. "A Scout is Loyal". Which Loyalty to cling to? I'm still figuring. I am reminded of that scene in Forrest Gump, where he takes off on his cross sountry run and suddenly he finds himself followed by hundreds of people who see him as a human "grail" to be emmulated and pursued. And just as suddenly he stops, and the folks following don't know what to make of it. What to do now? Was running the end in itself? or was there a purpose behind the running? Saw alot of beautiful scenery....... As Scout Leaders we have to try and make sure that our "followers" know what to do when we stop running (both metaphorically and in reality). There's a thread to spin off: Forrest Gump as erstwhile Scout Leader,. I'll leave that to someone else. YiS
  11. CoL should check the definition behind "A Scout Is Obedient" and bite their bullet and obey the law as set forth by the duly elected government of their home town. They need to find a new home and get on with the work of serving the youth of the city. Any body ever thought of PAYING a CM or SM to help set up and run an inner city Pack/Troop? Seems to me that a volunteer CM or SM might be hard to come by in a disadvantaged neighborhood. And ditto all the above about Mr. Zeiger. (he lives in Washington State??)
  12. ??? The sound of the broom used in "curling"?
  13. Toy or history lesson or target practice or engineering challenge or potential weapon? Check out the Scout participation in the National Punkin' Chunkin' Championships... How far can a hand made mechanism "toss" a pumpkin? Trebuchet or Onager or 40' pnuematic tube... Bridgeville Delaware... http://www.punkinchunkin.com Look for "Chuck B's Photos (part 2)" Pics # MGO0727 et al.
  14. Don't forget the parents... Inspire yourselves with watching "Monty Python and the Holy Grail" Skits and silly songs and running jokes... Killer rabbits and Tim the Enchanter can be your friends... Dumdededumdumdum... We're knights of the round table, we dance when 'er we're able and imitate Clark Gable....
  15. Nobody likes everthing... Let's see now,which is prefferred? "Wanna go on a hike?" "Go take a hike!" "Hike up them shorts!" "Let's take a hike." "Hike!" (pneumatically distended leatherized oblate spheroid appears in hand). usw.
  16. A lot of excellent Ideas... You might invite the Scout Troop(s) that your Ws bridge over to. Do you have any Den Chiefs? Good time to recruit them from the Troops nearby. The 'hero worship' factor can really work in your favor with a couple of Boy Scouts to help with the Cub activities. KiS MiF YiS
  17. Hiya, Hiya Hiya... Reeeead all about it... Get yer paper here... EEEEleven Eagle Scouts in the same Court of Honor, Been together since Cubs... Viking Patrol makes good... Reeeeead all about it... http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2008/01/18/AR2008011803722.html 19 January 2008 Washington Post page A1.
  18. Recent history.... I was watching the Scouts begin the meeting with the usual color guard entry, and I did something I hadn't done before. I paid close attention to the APPEARANCE of the flags. Here's what I discovered: 1))The Troop flag was the ORIGINAL flag that was used when I was a Scout in the same Troop, and it was really the worse for wear. I later went to the CC and spoke of getting a new Troop flag for the Troop to use and maybe retire the old one to a display case, with it's signatures and history mentioned. He was surprised that it was as old as it obviously was, and liked my suggestion. Troop 50th is approaching. 2)) The American flag had 15 stripes(!!) and only 15 stars. Because of the way the Scouts carry it in, no one had ever noticed this before, in recent memory at least. We had a short history lesson (no, the Troop isn't that old) about how the flag has evolved, and how cum the flag HERE looks the way it does and is it really an American flag we can use, shouldn't we get a new one etc. Well, the "star spangled banner" of the War of 1812 was 'created' just a few miles north of us so perhaps that is how we ended up with such a 'historic' flag rather than the up to date 50 star version. Flags are fun and observation is important. So, SctDad, get an up-to-date version! And just for kicks, sign the haul strip for reminincing when you come back later! YiS
  19. Capture the Flag (adult version/international politics not withstanding) is a cool game. Almost any 'wide game' is. But the object/goal is not to ELIMINATE your opponent, merely to best them. Strategy, tactics, teamwork, vision, observation, knowledge of your opponent, knowledge of the ground all come in to play and are developed thereby. Ltag, Pball the goal is too close to the real type of 'point and shoot'. One is not shooting a target to improve ones skill. Ones goal is to KILL the other guy. Fill 'em with paint or low wattage ruby light. Gain skill, confidence and experience and fear conquering by going the distance, living thru freezing weather, climbing rock walls, almost drowning in white water in tippy little canoes. In Rwanda and the Congo and Dafur, real children are being trained to really kill. Paint ball is too close to the real thing for my Scouts. They may eventually have to learn about the real thing, but first let's help'em to think about how to make such conflicts not happen. Past generations have not been all that successful. Is it possible to make things better without 'violence at a distance'? Or violence up close for that matter? So how do the Scouts deal with bullys?
  20. My interpretation of the aforementioned regulation (and it's intent) is not so much the chance of injury as the promotion of war like games. Shot gun skeet, .22 rifle, BB air gun, sling shot and archery TARGET shooting is all still allowed. Even encouraged. But Paintball etc. is a simulation of warfare. The desired intent is to hit a target, NOT to pretend to KILL your opponent. Hence the differentiation and ban. All the above instruments and sport CAN be used to injure, but NOT in the allowed activity. Pball, Ltag are each intended to play act the "game" of war. I would not favor a "lasertag" Camporee. See the book "Ender's Game" by Orson Scott Card
  21. Ditto the FOS presentaions. It shouldn't feel ike a timeshare come-on. A QUICK reminder is all. AoL? See if the District OA Ceremony team can do a "show", always wow's our Cubs.
  22. Ah yes, Red Green's solution to every problem (real or not)... Duct Tape. Search these forums, if you dare, and see the many uses (and misuses) of that noble commodity. Is the man still a Scout Leader?
  23. Since the cherces have been opened, I'll have to nominate my father, who played semi-pro softball as a catcher, ONE HANDED. Lost his left arm up to the shoulder in a construction accident before he met my mom, and according to my Uncle, could out throw and out hit many men in his league with the normal equipment. I watched him when he helped coach my Cub Scout softball league and marveled at his manipulation of glove and ball. Catch the ball, toss it in the air slightly, drop the glove, catch the ball and fire it to third base. mm- mm-mm. Sorry to say, all I have is his example and my Uncles remininces. No photos or record books. "Course, Frank Howard was no slouch. (This message has been edited by SSScout)
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