By the time I was in Junior High School, my parents were pretty much hands-off any involvement I may have had outside the home. That included school and church. It was pretty much the same with my buddies. "Hey, Mom, I'm heading out with the guys. See you at supper time." Yep, prior to Junior High we pretty much need getting kicked out of the house, but misery loves company and the group formed. We did Little League, same team, Scouts, Rifle Club, Civil Air Patrol, and a ton of other activities.
I have no idea how any of us ever grew up without the constant hovering parents do today.