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  1. Welcome to the forum. Wish it were on a happier note. Well, let's see: - 2 counts of assault and battery (one on a military reservation, FT A.P Hill, making it a Federal crime), not to mention blatant violation of Youth Protection guidelines. - all Scouting activities are open to all parents at any time, period. The SM does not have the right to tell you to stay away, nor should you. I would make sure he knew I was watching his every move. Taking what you have said at face value, the SM is out of control and needs to be removed from the program. Your son may have been out of line too, but that does not excuse the behavior of the adult. Unfortunately, two years is a long time to wait and the statute of limitations may have run out. Guys like this need to be stopped...and soon...before he does something that an apology won't fix. Wonder if he beats his wife, too? Please start by calling your council Scout Executive first thing tomorrow morning and tell him everything you said here...and let us know how it turns out. Ask for him by name and don't settle for anyone else.
  2. OK, I've seen this percentage kicked around ... anywhere from 2-5%. For us science majors, what's the denominator? 2% of what? As I tried to explain the $99 a month car payment ads to my boys...I can make the payment anything you want it to be if I fiddle with the other terms of the equation. Just curious.
  3. Yours is a "common sense" approach, Eisely, however as has been pointed out by the "Rule Police" here, "the rules is the rules" and I don't know how else to interpret the word "passenger". In my simple mind, if you are in a canoe, you are either a paddler or a passenger...can't be both. And I agree that if the parents want a personal lifeguard, they need to foot the bill for his expenses. Safety is something I will not compromise. The idea of having "Swimmers" is so the scout can handle himself if he gets dunked, so "having other stronger swimmers" in the canoe with him is a non-starter. If the canoe swamps, they are busy taking care of their own butts (and gear) and should not be expected to be responsible for the non-swimmer. If it were MY unit, every Scout going on the trip would be a Swimmer, period. With proper instruction, there's no reason short of physical disability that would prevent that. Sounds like the parents are too quick to jump in and save the day...
  4. BSA Safety Afloat requires everyone in a canoe on running water to pass the BSA "Swimmer" test. If he cannot pass the Swimmer test, he may ride as a "passenger" with an adult who is also a certified lifeguard. IF there is an adult available who is a certified lifeguard AND who is willing to do all the paddling on the trip, then GO for it. As a "passenger", the scout has to just sit there and enjoy the ride. If this is a long-term trip, having more than two people in the canoe, plus their gear, is not safe. I did three 50-milers as a Scout and with only two people plus gear, we were pretty low in the water, and did our share of swamping...especially in the rapids. Anyone disagree?
  5. Thanks for the responses. I did find another thread which listed LOTS of Eagle BOR questions, so I printed those out as well. Still not sure what's expected of me in this case, so I will "Be Prepared". The answer could run the gamut from "sit in the corner and sign the paper when we're done" to "run the show and tell us what to do" (I hope not, since this is an experienced, well run Troop). My biggest concern is that it is a memorable and meaningful experience for the Scout, so that he can go back and tell his Troop-mates that it was fair, but not a rubber stamp.
  6. If you can't get the Troop to a long-term camp, look into the possibility of sending individual scouts as "Provisional campers". THis is when a scout attends as a guest of another troop...every year we have one attend with us and it is always a positive experience (win-win!). Reasons can run the gamut from just wanting another week at camp to get more merit badges to family calendar conflicts.
  7. "Monument Avenue". The latest addition was a statue of the late Arthur Ashe, Richmond native and world class tennis champion.
  8. "The lack of OA elections seems to be a symptom, not the disease. You troop's real problem is the lack of an outdoors program and that it is run by a patriarchy, not the PLC." Thanks...along with comments about this troop in another thread, THAT's why I suggested a Unit Commissioner ... if you have one who actually does what they are supposed to be doing. There's more wrong with this troop than the lack of OA elections.
  9. IMHO, you are doing exactly right, Laura. A MB Counsellor can neither add nor subtract from the stated requirements. If you have not directly observed the scout's performance, you can ask that he do it again for you, even if he has a partial blue card, since you are the one ultimately signing off that the badge has been completed. Otherwise, he can go back to the original counsellor.
  10. Sorry for the typo...should have been "In 2002"...
  11. The main purpose of the OA is to promote unit camping, although many have lost sight of that fact. Having elections should not be an option of the Unit leader. OA is an integral part of the program and, next to Eagle, is one of the highest honors a Scout can receive. In an ideal world, your Unit Commissioner and OA Chapter Chief should be seeking out those units who have not scheduled elections and making sure it gets done. The Troop should also have an OA Representative as a youth leadership position. Where is the unit committee in all of this?
  12. Welcome to the online campfire! You read my mind. Our council has special CSPs for Silver Beavers, but not Eagles...I have recently started promoting the idea. A Google search on "Eagle Scout CSP" will get you a lot of ideas...some Councils require proof of Eagle to purchase one.
  13. Following is a direct quote. Readers can form their own opinions. I found it interesting that they felt a need to defend their numbers. Perhaps someone in Irving reads our Forum??? From EAGLETTER, Spring 2003: NOTES FROM NESA "We did it! IN 2003, the Boy Scouts of America established a record Eagle Scout Class - 49,328 new Eagle Scouts. Are we excited about more young men earning Eagle Rank? Yes. Do we want to increase the number of Scouts who earn it? Not necessarily. The Eagle Scout Rank is a standard by which a young man's accomplishments are measured. The award is significantly difficult to achieve, and we are not making it any easier to earn. We belive that the BSA's youth retention efforts are to thank for this surge in new Eagle Scouts. We are proud to process these new Eagles, and we recognize that the real pats on the back belong to parents, Troops, and motivated young men who work for this honor. Congratulations and thanks to all who helped a young man become an Eagle."
  14. As a District Committee person, I have been asked by the Adv Chairman to serve as the District rep on an Eagle BOR next week. Any tips for a first-timer? I am an Eagle, but don't remember much from my BOR in 1970.
  15. Never one to remain "defiantly ignorant", I checked and Ed is correct, HIPAA (correct acronym) does not apply to BSA since they are not a "covered entity" (do not accept or transmit payment for health care or transmit medical information electronically...yet). However...if I ever find out that personnel OTHER THAN the camp medic have free access to my medical information, the Scout Executive and I are going to have a very unpleasant, pretty much one-way discussion.
  16. Especially under the new HIPAA law, there is NO medical information that you as a leader have a "right" to know, should the parent choose not to share it with you. I know from first-hand experience that there are HIV positive kids (no, NOT my own!) in our schools...and there is NO legal requirement for that information to be disclosed to ANYONE...that means they are in our scout troops as well. That's why Blood Borne Pathogen training should be an integral part of all first aid training and scrupulously followed, no matter how well you think you know your kids and fellow Scouters. My wife's motto (an elementary school nurse): "If it's wet and it's not yours, DON'T TOUCH IT!"
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  18. And, Bob, no one suggested that we would "keep secrets." I said we would explore together the correct course of action... Of course all of this must be taken in context...depending on the situation. Murder is one thing...worrying that you might be gay at the ripe old age of 12 is quite another. Next week they will be on to some other "crisis of conscience". What I am hearing on this thread is tantamount to reading the kid his Miranda rights before every SM conference. (Anything you say may be passed on to your parents!) I guess I am tainted by my public health training...my first job was running VD (now STD) clinics for the state health department (yes, I was a CDC-trained counsellor). We were PROHIBITED by law from telling parents and we had a legal obligation to interview, test and treat minors WITH OR WITHOUT the parent's knowledge and consent. If the kids knew we would run blabbing to their parents, they would never show up for treatment and the STD rates would sky-rocket. Sometimes the good of the population outweighs the rights of the individual. "Scouting is no longer a safe haven"? Do you have a reference for that? As a trainer, I want to be able to quote BSA policy accurately.
  19. According to our Council Calendar, the next months BS themes, through December are: Emerg Preparedness Health Care Boating/Canoeing Safety Nature Business First Aid
  20. Scouting is supposed to be a "safe haven". If a scout is troubled, and thinks I am the one who can help him, I am going to listen. That's my job, and I hope other leaders would do the same for my sons. After I hear what the problem is, he and I together will decide what to do. I will never turn away a child in need. That's neither Christian nor Scout-like. Y'all can debate till the cows come home, but to me, it's never been a question. "to help other people at all times..."
  21. KS, I hope that the "spare inhalers" you carry are ones prescribed for those individual kids. Ergo, if you have two asthmatics, you will need two "spares"...one for each kid. UNless you are an MD, it is illegal to give them medication that was prescribed for someone else, even if you "think" it is the same drug and same dosage, etc.
  22. Yeah, 100% cotton is great...but I hope you know how to use an iron!
  23. I do the same thing...I make many checks out to "Boy Scout Troop XXX" during the year, and take the deduction, as long as it's a legitimate donation and not things that benefit me such as camp fees, popcorn, etc. A Scout is Trustworthy. I don't cheat. If ever audited, I will show my receipts, explain what I did and why, and if the IRS chooses to disallow the deduction, I will pay the additional tax. That's a chance I'm willilng to take, as in the past when I have dealt with the IRS (over my Mother's estate), I have found them to be friendly, helpful, fellow Civil Servants. (no, I don't work for the IRS!) My non-legal advice is "proceed until apprehended" but let the Scout Law be your guide. As long as their is no intent to defraud, I think it's OK.
  24. If the parents choose not to share that information, I don't think you can be held responsible for consequences. Fortunately, with ADD/ADHD, lack of medication is not a life-threatening situation.
  25. We make the trip every winter over the MLK day weekend. We stay in cabins at Camp Hidden Valley, Landisburg, PA, Keystone Area Council. The kids love the camp, and this year, we had snow, although the temp was around 15 degrees, making the battlefield trip a little brisk. We made two trips, one to Gettysburg battlefields and the second day to Roundtop Ski resort. From the camp, it's about a 30 minute drive to either location.
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