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  1. I agree that the popcorn fundraiser should be a family effort. If I had an office to go to, I would take my boys' order forms with me to work. I guess I just didn't feel the dad should have misled the Pack into thinking that his son went out and sold all that popcorn. The only reason I even knew about this was becuase the Treasurer was very concerned that this family was not turning in $1,500 of their sale. She asked me what to do about it, and that's when we discovered the family had personally bought that much in order to make sure their son had a huge sale. Luckily, they did pay up, bu
  2. It doesn't matter if they stick with the blue or switch to tan at some point. My older son needed a bigger size shirt after his Bear year, so I bought him a tan shirt with room to grow. He was then able to wear it as a 1st year Boy Scout before he outgrew it. My younger son outgrew his brother's hand-me-down blue shirt after his Wolf year, so I had no choice, but to get him a larger blue one. I'm going to have him wear the blue one all through out Webelos, so I get my money's worth out of this shirt. Our 2nd year Webelos still had blue shirts to the end, but at Blue and Gold, part o
  3. A boy in our pack has consistently been the top seller of popcorn each year. Our pack is grateful for the money that he generates for us. However, I learned that this year, when he didn't manage to sell nearly as much as in previous years, his parents bought $1500 worth of popcorn with the idea that they'd continue to try to sell it after the ending date. I didn't know about this until after it was done. I have no idea how much popcorn they are "stuck" with, but I also wonder if this is ethical. He was cited as the top seller again, and he probably would have been even without the extra h
  4. I think most troops do give more "prodding" until the boys reach 1st class. I'd talk with the SM and other leaders to get their ideas and also to alert them that your son is doing the work, but not initiating meetings for sign-offs. My son, too, was slow to get things signed off. In his case, he IS shy with adults, although, I've seen a great improvement in the 2 years he's been a Boy Scout. The first class requirement that was toughest for him was the one where he needed to talk to a civic leader about their responsibilities as a citizen. My son was very nervous about approaching
  5. As a conservative, right-wing Christian Republican female human (I think those are enough descriptors for now!,) I have to say that I am ashamed that my first reaction to this situation was completely prejudiced. (I am, after all, human!) I was horrified that ANY Arab country would have anything to do with our ports. Being a somewhat sane and rational human, I forced myself to withold judgement until I knew all of the facts. I still don't know what to think of this, and I am having difficulty over-coming my prejudice against Middle Eastern countries. My sister had a wonderful college
  6. A nervous Venture scout: Chicken of the Sea healthy trail mix: Two scoops of raisins in a package of... When a Cub crosses over to Boy Scouts: I'm a big kid now! Racoons at summer camp: Aye, yi, yi, yi, Oh I am the Frito Bandito. (a twist on Dr. Pepper) I'm a Scouter, you're a Scouter, he's a Scouter, we're all Scouters, wouldn't you like to be a Scouter, too? Be a Scouter... I don't want to grow up, I'm a Scouts R Us kid!
  7. Trevorum, I'm glad you mentioned that a BOR never FAILS someone, but just postpones the completion, until all requirements have been satisfactorally finished. My son didn't pass his first BOR for 1st class, because he didn't give thorough enough answers. He is a poor test taker, and tends to "choke" under pressure. When I asked him about the BOR later, it was clear to me that he DID know the information, but the way he communicated it looked like he didn't know it well enough. I was pleased to see that the leaders reassured my son that there was nothing wrong with not passing the first tim
  8. Our Pack brings in a photographer during our Blue and Gold Banquet. We don't do a whole Pack picture, but have the dens go one at a time for their den picture (and individuals for those who want them). My older son's troop doesn't do this, but I would definitely buy a picture each year, if they did.
  9. A lot of the younger boys in my son's troop don't shower at camp, but they do swim. Another hygiene issue that gets overlooked is brushing teeth. I don't think my son has ever brushed his teeth on a camp-out or at summer camp. Any ideas to promote tooth brushing?
  10. Thanks for the ideas, they will certainly help!
  11. I'd like to know how other Packs do the Color Guard. Our Tigers and Wolves have trouble holding the flag while we recite the Pledge. I may be remembering wrong, but I think that our Pack used to allow the boys to "post" the colors before we said the Pledge. For at least the last 3 years, we have been doing it this way: Color Guard Advance Color Guard Present the Colors (we say the Pledge while the boys hold the flags) Color Guard Post the Colors Color Guard dismissed Is it okay to let the boys "post" the Colors before we say the Pledge? Even a few of my Webelos have troub
  12. MaScout, you are a great role-model for leading and then allowing others to lead. Although my Cub leader years will only be at total of 8 by the time my younger son crosses to boy scouts next year, I, too find myself in a position of being the "most experienced" leader in the Pack right now. We have excellent Tiger and Wolf leaders (no Bears this year), so even though they ask what they're going to do without me, I know they'll do great. I keep reminding them that the Pack needs new ideas, and they are starting to realize that they don't have to look to me before making decisions. If t
  13. I'd also add a list of suggested clothing and equipment to bring. This is especially important for 1st time campers.
  14. I don't have a sewing machine, and don't want to pay someone else to sew on patches, so I hand sew them myself. Another leader gave me a helpful tip that I always use, now. I staple the patch to the shirt with one or 2 staples, to hold it in place. After sewing on the patch, I carefully remove the staples. I could not get the Wolf/Bear arrow points on straight, until I tried this technique.
  15. My community has 2 troops and 4 feeder Packs. The 2 "town" Packs traditionally feed into Troop A, while the 2 "country" packs typically feed into Troop B. Troop A does not invite Webelos to attend Camporee or Klondike Derby so some of the "town" packs' Webelos are now going to Troop B. I think our community does need 2 troops, but I fear that Troop A is going to continue to shrink if they don't maintain a relationship with Webelos like Troop B does. The 2 troops meet on different nights, so some boys do end up choosing a troop based on the day of the week that works best for them.
  16. I've been wondering how kids manage when they are overbooked with activities. My brother was very busy in High school with a sport Fall, Winter, and Spring, as well as band, Boy Scouts, and Church Youth Group. He managed to make Eagle Scout despite his busy schedule, and I asked my Mom how he did it. (I was away at college, so I didn't see him live this on a day-to-day basis) My Mom pointed out that they wouldn't let him get a job during the school year (we all detassled corn in the summer - Yuck!) and he didn't have the best grades - mostly C's. He never seemed stressed, and he wanted to
  17. I nominate gwd-scouter to do the counting for us! Will you get back to us with the results?
  18. Eagle76 and CNYscouter: Thanks for the lesson! I look forward to Boy Scout leader training after my younger son crosses over to Boy Scouts in one year.
  19. A few years ago, my pack was having a hard time finding leadership. We did have a decent number of boys (35-40), but no CM. All of the den leaders already each held another position (at the time I was Tiger DL, Webelos 1 DL, CC, Advancement Coordinator, and Membership Chair!), so none of us could also take on CM. When we actively looked into merging our Pack with another local Pack, that's when we finally got someone to step up to CM. GS-CS: you have a tough decision. It doesn't look like either of the other Packs will work for you. Personally, I hope you don't let the "Christian"
  20. On another note, I've noticed that the younger boys actually tend to do better than the older boys at Klondike. The older boys tend to assume they already know everything, while I see the younger boys studying up on the skills needed. Last year, I was an adult walker for a patrol of boys who were mostly high school aged. Even though they had competed for many years, they did worse than my son's patrol (which was completely made up of brand new scouts). At our "sled ferry," the older patrol dropped their sled in the bottom of a ravine, because they hurried through their knot tying. T
  21. Okay, I'm confused. I am still just a Cub scout leader who participates as a parent helper with my older son's troop. I thought the troop was supposed to be boy-led. The BOYS in my son's troop are the ones who are choosing to combine patrols for special events. Are the leaders supposed to over-ride their decision and tell them they MUST stick with existing patrols only? I'm planning on taking the training to become a Boy Scout leader when my 4th grader crosses over to Boy Scouts. Maybe I'll understand better, then. The 2 patrols that would have had only 2 boys each, are both made up
  22. Thanks for the tip on what sounds like an excellent resource for any leader. It looks like something even non-Christians would be willing to read. I'm going to check to see if our church library has a copy yet.
  23. As a woman in scouting, I didn't realize I was supposed to be trying to look fashionable! I really don't think it's necessary. I just want to look like a leader, not a female leader. That's why I won't wear the yellow blouse, skirt, etc. Personally, I think that if a uniform was designed especially for a woman, then it would end up being something like we already have, and don't want. (skirt, culottes) I think we all have issues, male or female about the current uniform, but I guess I thought that "uniform" meant "same" and that we should all look uniform. I have to co
  24. Our troop ends up combining patrols due to the same reasons that others have mentioned. If older boys try to take over a patrol, that patrol will lose points as they need to show how they can work together. So, we haven't had a problem with a mix of ages in the patrols. My 12 year old son was the patrol leader for his patrol this year and the boys ranged in age from 11-15. I, too, don't see why it is so important to keep strictly to true patrols. If our troop had done that, we would have had 2 patrols of 6 boys each, and 2 patrols of 2 boys each. If every troop would have had 4 or
  25. I was one of the adult "walkers" assigned to my son's patrol at Klondike Derby. Any adult help reduces the points that the boys receive. We adults are only there for the 2-deep adult leadership/supervision. One of the boys pointed out how boy-run this really is, when I asked the patrol if any of them were going to do the optional compass course. The boys said they didn't want to do it, and when I reminded them that they might have a chance at winning the top score if they completed the course, one boy said, "You adults are always reminding us that it's not all about winning, it's about
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