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  1. Aaah, Beavah, I didn't say I agreed or disagreed with the rest of your statement! Call me a purist if you will, but I believe we have an obligation to our youth to follow National BSA policy whenever we can. I follow the rules. A Scout is honest & trustworthy. So if I know a rule exists and I don't follow it, what standard am I setting? By not following this particular rule, the Scoutmaster puts a boy's Eagle Rank at risk. While I know this is a big "what if", bear with me for a minute: Suppose a young man submits his Eagle application. When it reaches Council or National level
  2. Oui! There are abominable training courses out there. For them, I am ashamed. Part of the problem is the training material, part of the problem is the trainers. It saddens me. It frustrates me. It angers me. Are there any nearby councils/districts where the training courses are better? Go there. Do not "train" where you are getting no value. All you are training for is perserverance or a knot. While I served as District Training Chair (Aha! Now you know why I was on the soapbox! ) I worked hard to get the BEST trainers. Yes, we offered what was in the BSA material as "required", but
  3. Make sure he's getting enough to drink, too. We usually camp in the mountains and they don't realize how much they can dehydrate nor how quickly. Appropriate drinks are important, too. (Water vs. sodas, fruit juice vs. caffiene) Altitude sickness or dehydration can make a child think he's homesick because he doesn't feel well. And let me reiterate what EagleinKY says, "Don't mother him." !!!!! I am female, and while the temptation is sometimes there, it is NOT in the best interest of the Scout!
  4. In the heat of a bout of homesickness, DISCOURAGE THEM FROM CALLING HOME! Try to distract them with other activities until the worst wave passes. Then make a judgement call as to the phone call. In our troop, we try not to have our boys call home as it just seems to encourage homesickness. Homebound parents may be well-meaning, but are often much of the problem. Keep them busy but not exhausted. Exhaustion and tiredness lead to wanting a Mommy's touch. But do keep activities going. Keep them clean. It sounds wierd, but the sweaty, dirty boy will be more pensive than the clean Scout.
  5. Go for it! It validates them and empowers them. If they are heard in the little things, they might get braver yet! We have done movie nights, they enjoy it, and they really don't ask to repeat it very often...maybe once every 4 years. As fgoodwin says though, set some guidelines. Scout "conduct, spirit, behavior" would all be good terms to use. Then let them select, with final approval by you or the committee.
  6. Beavah, you say, "I've seen a few troops that still have boys participate as board members on BOR's. That, too, was a BSA standard." That's okay, as long as there are three registered committee members on that Board also. That is a national standard and our District will not approve advancement without that standard being met, nor should any.
  7. BSAs current Wood Badge material was outsourced. The actual training is completed by local volunteers who have spent countless hours and driven countless miles for the previous 18 months working on putting together a program for us. They deserve more respect from us than this. Even though I personally didnt learn a ton from Wood Badge (I have been well-trained in management and teaching and routinely read all my manuals), there is virtually NO training that occurs in which NO learning occurs, unless we have the mindset from the beginning that the training has nothing to offer. I still learned
  8. In our Pack, the standard 3 den meetings/1 pack meeting per month. There can be variations...one den leader needed to have 2 den meetings per month, but meets a little longer. I have worked with 4 Webelos groups (and still am) and have been with a Troop for 10 years, now, too. Clyde, what you describe will definitely work. When I say "den meetings", that is loosely defined...we do many outings, too. That keeps it fun & exciting. But we usually work on requirements while there. Go on a hike & work on Outdoorsman or Leave No Trace. Go play Tennis and work on Sportsman. Go swimming a
  9. uz2bnowl -- RIGHT ON! We all have the same amount of time. Sometimes those trainers are missing a soccer game, GIVING UP THEIR TIME, to offer training. Our kids DO deserve trained leaders...people who know how to deliver a quality program, safety issues, etc. We chose to have these children. Now choose to make a quality life for them! And what a wonderful time we can have with them. They are FUN! Even other people's kids are fun. (Waaaay more fun than mowing the lawn! lol) emb021, you say it well too, with "I wonder how a leader who doesn't have the time to take training has the ti
  10. acco40, Yes, they will & do sell me one for an additional shirt if I have already earned it, but they will NOT "just sell me one" so I can "look good", I want it, or whatever. That is what I meant. But then, they have already checked me out and have a record of me earning it, so it isn't "just selling me one" is it? Sorry if I misunderstood what Oaktree was saying.
  11. Again...we are very rural here, so... We invite about 10 troops. We have anywhere from 12 - 20 counselors and usually around 40-60 boys. Sometimes more, soemtimes less, depending on the timing, etc. We come from a large geographical area (about 3600 square miles--less than 1/3 the District), but virtually all the leaders and most of the boys know each other before we get there, so we are at least "familiar" with the boys wanting to get an edge on the MB's...usually the ones who actually have some self-drive. As I mentioned in my previous post, since it is so hard to find MB counselor
  12. Often, your District Training Staff wants to help reach for the 100% trained level, too, and will BRING IT TO YOU. Ask! It never hurts to ask. The worst they can do is say no. Our District routinely takes it TO units on a date they choose. This is when you really find out who was too busy and who has no intention of attending. Those District Trainers are volunteers, too, and find time to be trained and share that knowledge on!
  13. We sometimes work on Merit Badges at troop meetings, but: 1) We work on them, we don't usually complete them - Scouts have to do that on their own, 2) That's what the Scouts want to do, and 3) It IS set up by the Scouts. Par for the course, the only problem we usually have is the adults who want to put their finger in! (Example: Boys lined up 2 young men who taught Pioneering at summer camp to come and work on it at a troop meeting. One of the adults kept going over to "help" and tell them the right way to do it. The boys were deferential to her, but I finally had to ask her point blank, "But
  14. Yikes! They will just sell you one?!?! We have "Knot Police" here. Our DE accepts the application and the District Committee verifies EVERYTHING you put down! Training records are checked scrupulously, CC's are contacted, charters are reviewed, ... The Knot Police do their job.
  15. Meanwhile, get plenty of backpacking experience! While not the toughest trek our Troop has gone on, it definitely shouldn't be one of the first.
  16. Aaaah...but what about all those EMPTY containers that get put back in the fridge or cupboard? (A new thread actually, but I'm surprised it hasn't been mentioned!)
  17. Hawks...Steelers...What in the world are you talking about? I'm going to the District (Scout) Dinner Sunday...I HOPE no-one is going to be stealing hawks there!
  18. Scouts must be 14 by January 1 of the year the troop is attending or 13 and completed 8th grade. Hope this helps.
  19. Good advice...listen well. I have been involved in "putting a Pack back together", starting a new Troop, AND starting a new Venturing Crew. I cannot imagine doing two of them at the same time. Each is very time intensive and very psychologically intensive. Not everyone shares our vision...and we need to make sure our "vision" of BSA programs is in line (not a carbon copy) of BSA intention...thus the training. Heed well what was said about Crew ADVISORS. When we started the Crew, I signed on as Committee Chair. Even though the Advisor was trained, for the first five meetings I had to
  20. I was recently asked to teach at a Merit Badge Fair, and at first I said NO! As I spoke to the organizers about it though, it made more & more sense. We met three different weekends, spaced a couple months apart. NO ONE completed a badge the same day he opened it! The boys looked into the various badges they thought they might like, then visited with counselors & signed up for the ones they wanted. They went through an introduction the first day, then did work on their own. The 2nd weekend, they could show they had completed one, visit with the counselor on what more they needed to do,
  21. Good questions, OGE. And the odd scout DOES exist! We just had one who missed several meetings and an outing. We discovered this was because he was serving as a deacon in his church and was helping there. We certainly didn't hold him back for this! Congratulated him, though. We live in a small town, and I usually know most of what is happening. People call to report on the Scouts at times! Now the boy (scout) who backed into a flag pole & drove off without telling the owner, we had some issues with. (The owner wasn't even that upset about the flag pole, but called to tell us that the
  22. BTW - it takes less than 1.5 minutes to brew a cup of espresso
  23. Re: portable tent heaters. They come with careful instructions and warnings. None-the-less, just last year a couple around here zipped the tent shut tight to keep the heat in...They never woke up. I would stay away from them and certainly would never allow a Scout to use one. Even if they avoided the asphyxiation concern, there is still a concern about the heat melting a sleeping bag or tent... We like our Coleman oven and LOVE our "fish cooker"... (the burners that are often used to deep fry turkeys) We can keep lots of hot water in winter months, cook on it, and have even roasted marshm
  24. The only thing domestic about me is that I live in a house. That being said, I REALLY don't like to sew. We use several solutions in our troop...sometimes I take a sewing machine to a troop meeting & the boys use it. Sometimes we have a parent who can't/won't help with camping and is happy to help by sewing patches. Often we look for a "push-over" who will do it (yep, that'd be me!) In 20+ years of Scouting, I think we've only had one family who actually paid someone to sew them on. Boys can learn this skill...with a needle & thread no less!
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