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  1. Two thoughts based on what I've seen my sons' school do when parents want to go on field trips. Our troop really doesn't have a problem with too many parents showing up so we haven't had to come up with a solution. 1) The parents who show up for service projects are given first shot at camping trips. 2) Have a list of parents who want to go on trips. Start at the top and work your way down with however many can go on a specific trip. If a parents name comes up and he/she can't go, they are at the top of the list for the next trip. If the parent can't go more than (pick a number)
  2. Thanks to the scouter who sent me the URL for the legal info. Whether I agree or disagree, which doesn't matter, it does seem cut-and-dried as far as Mom is concerned, unless she's willing to posit the existence of a God (which it is possible for an agnostic to do). There is wiggle room for the scout, in my view, depending on what Dad actually believes, how influential Mom has been (sounds like she's been very influential), what son thinks he believes (at 10!) and what the family actually does. I'll stop now. Good luck Sunday (how ironic that this conference is happening on a
  3. Actually, nwscouter, there's more wiggle room than you might think. The spectrum of "agnostic" includes atheistic agnostics at one end and theistic agnostics at the other end (see below). I do not have access to the exact wording of the BSA legal policy (tried Googling it and none of the links gave me anything but hysteria). As a former agnostic, I would have been comfortable, from an ethical perspective, signing the registration form - I've always believed in God but am unable to prove his/her/its existence. I have since moved into the theist arena and worship as a Christian (a Lutheran p
  4. Google turned up diddly for bobwhites in the Midwest. I know, how disappointing:
  5. Read that you'd made a decision, but thought I'd throw this out there for those who come after - we found a conservation effort related to the Northern Bob White and made a donation. Gave him a certificate with a picture of a bobwhite and our patrol flag, we all signed it, bought a relatively inexpensive frame. This may have been going over the top, but one of our members also found a really neat trinket box with a bear on the top so we gave him that too. He and his wife are both very serious about conservation (as are so many Scouters) - he was touched. Vicki
  6. nutz, obviously done differently council to council (probably based on state regs). Our meds are kept at our campsite unless they need refrigeration. For JLTC, I met with the ASM when I dropped my son off and passed along the necessary info at that time. Even so, the answer remains the same - the troop person on campsite should be the most knowledgeable person concerning an individual scout's condition and should get that info from the parents. Even if meds are involved, the person dispensing doesn't know that scout from any other kid his age. Vicki
  7. nutz, I would really hate to saddle a Scouter with the total range of possibilities inherent in an ADD/ADHD diagnosis. Individual followup with the parent as to the specifics of their son's issues will be a lot more valuable to the leader. For instance, when I discuss my son's med form (which would be filled out exactly as you describe) I let them know the accommodations that need to be made in a group setting - there aren't many and for confidentiality reasons I'm not going into them here. My son may read this someday! The only time it was really important was when he attended JLTC. Our
  8. >although, as somebody else has already pointed out, there is a wealth of information in that book.> Barry, this is the rest of the sentence that started with the First Class comment. As you said, from a teacher's point of view, that book is invaluable. The first time my oldest's got rain-soaked, we dried it out and I bought a cover for it. Basically, I was trying to give the folks who tell the scouts they don't have to bring the book the benefit of the doubt. I always have my copy with me and encourage my son to have his with him. Vicki
  9. Well, I can see not taking your handbook once you've reached First Class although, as somebody else has already pointed out, there is a wealth of information in that book. But we do so much advancement with the pre-First Class scouts on campouts that I guarantee some requirement completion would go unrecorded if they didn't have their books with them. Not to mention the intro to responsibility involved in keeping track of the darn thing. I also tend to think that, while Troopmaster is great, the scout's book, signed off as required, is the primary record. That book is what the scout needs
  10. OGE, I have the greatest respect for what you guys do and I speak from experience, having been one of two moderators on a 1200 member board on international adoption. Since this topic has gone public, at the risk of stepping out of line here, I would add that when the flames start between, for example, BW, Backpacker and/or Ed (or other combinations) it puts a definite chill on at least that topic if not the board in general. Constructive discussion stops when the sniping starts and there are no innocents. Vicki
  11. A reflection on the power of expectations - once you buy the shirt, the expectation in our troop is that you will at least attend training specific to your position (I am a committee member - Treasurer). If you're a camping type (which I am) the expectation is that as long as you're attending committee training, well, you might as well do the whole thing. Oh, and as long as you've gone this far, well why not Wood Badge? Of course, you had the full uniform long ago. It's a slippery slope and once you're on it, just think of yourself as a fish on a hook. I got asked to be an ASM at NYLT
  12. OK, as long as we're getting personal here:
  13. Lynda, for a thicker gravy, slightly richer taste with less likelihood of clumping use Bisquick. I don't quite like my gravy as thick as wallpaper paste, but close! Also, if you use regular milk (just in case you haven't made gravy before) get it out of the cooler and let it warm up a bit before you use it - that will also help reduce clumps. Vicki
  14. Beastie's Mom, I think Mike F hit it on the head earlier in this thread (ah, poetry:
  15. Yep, the BSA method in action and at its finest. Probably the hardest thing for a parent to understand - the parent's route for communication is through the committee and/or the SM. Then leave it up to the SM's best judgment, that's why we pay him the big bucks:
  16. High praise from BW! (No sarcasm here, BW, you have an unrivaled grasp of the intricacies of the BSA documentation and have willingly provided it on many occasions to clarify issues.) Vicki
  17. Yeah, what anarchist said! We had one patrol do steaks and potatoes over their backpacking stoves (I think they cheated a little bit and pre-baked their potatoes) for dinner. We did a chicken and noodle casserole along with a beef something (memory fades) that was really good. Biscuits on the side but baked on-site. We needed something fast because we were still putting our patrol presentation together:
  18. Thanks for all the input, folks! We didn't have a powerpoint presentation but we did have a slideshow on a laptop showing a CD of pictures taken by various people during the course. Brought other knick-knacks (cup, sit-upon, song book, etc.) to fill the table. Our Troop 1 Scoutmaster and Troop Guide handled the ceremony and my sister (also a Bear from a few years back) assisted with placing the beads, woggle and kerchief. I said a few words when called upon, we did our favorite patrol shout and a bear rub and then handshakes and hugs all 'round. It took the place of most of a regular troo
  19. Congratulations! What a wonderful setting (said slightly wistfully). I went to another beading some years ago that was on a lakefront at sunset, with an entire patrol who had waited to get their beads together. Very moving to have more than one participant for some reason. That said, I received my beads last Thursday and also elected not to do it at an RT. I had mine on a regular troop night - we had a short session on firebuilding (at least it smelled like woodsmoke:
  20. Gotcha, EagleInKY - agreed on all points, up to and including our jointly held pet peeve. Thanks for the clarification. Vicki
  21. EagleinKY wrote >Mom said "Oh, I'm buying the MB books for the badges he was going to take at camp. I'm hoping we can work on them and he can complete them by summer".> Was the implication here that she thought she could sign off on the scout's cards? Or is it more along the lines of trying to get, for example, Camping on your own? Or that he should be doing MBs with another Scout? If so, then I understand your comment. But if it wasn't, then what's wrong with her buying the books? Whenever my son signs up for a MB, we find a MB counselor, he calls and sets up the initial appoi
  22. My understanding is that you won't find the BSA prohibiting dad/mom from being a MB counselor for their son. That said, our troop does have a policy prohibiting it. I'm working with my son on Personal Mgmt at the moment but he will go over all the verbal/written work and get his card signed off by a different counselor (as I did with this counselor's son). I do think though, that as the only Cooking MB counselor, if we decide to take a group through that badge, I will be allowed to sign off on my son's card. But I'm not sure - the situation hasn't arisen yet. It will definitely be a C
  23. My understanding is that you won't find the BSA prohibiting dad/mom from being a MB counselor for their son. That said, our troop does have a policy prohibiting it. I'm working with my son on Personal Mgmt at the moment but he will go over all the verbal/written work and get his card signed off by a different counselor (as I did with this counselor's son). I do think though, that as the only Cooking MB counselor, if we decide to take a group through that badge, I will be allowed to sign off on my son's card. But I'm not sure - the situation hasn't arisen yet. It will definitely be a C
  24. and a good ol' bear too. Glad it worked out! Congratulations to your son on his Eagle... my son and I will be at the Life to Eagle seminar during April's RT. I can only imagine the pride you feel at this moment. Vicki
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