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Eagledad

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  1. >>What do the rest of you think? Yeh think scouting scheduling adds disproportionately to the scheduling burden?
  2. Doctors are like engineers, they each have different opinions of how to do their job. I had one scout who by the age 15 had been through 4 heart surgeries. His doctor had no problem with Philmont and approved him to go. I was the one who kept questioning the scout and his dad if he was healthy enough for the trek. He had the doctor write me a personal letter, which I sent to Philmont along with all his medical history. I was convinced Philmont would say no, but they had no trouble letting him go. I also have a 5 7 115 lb. son who has done three Philmont treks. The only thing I saw him
  3. >>I go agree with Gonzo that the boy should be able to carry his own pack.
  4. >>My career requires me to be cynical, that should have been obvious from my Username.
  5. >>Of course the Scout has no where to go for help, he can't push back on his parents, and he views all the SM's and ASM's as on the parent's side...gung ho and what not. Seems like there is a point where Scouting does more harm than good.
  6. >>My advice is to learn your position, enjoy your time with your son, it is all about him and his scout experience. RIGHT?????
  7. >>Merit badge classes seem to be here to stay, so instead of debating them, let's make certain that they are not abused.
  8. >>I of course think they are wrong, but if they really deep down believe what they are doing is the best for the kids they serve. I do have to respect them for that. (They are still wrong!)
  9. Short sheeting, plastic Icecube with a fly, rubber spider on sleeping bag, a rock in the backpack are off the top of my head. Barry
  10. Sadly I understand evmoris point after reading the post that is equating Pranks and Bullying as the same thing. In most cases pranks are harmless acts played for the fun of everyone involved. Bullying are acts intended to harm. Bullys might use pranks to do harm, but not all pranks are bullying. If we start considering a prank and bullying as the same thing, there is no end to legitimizing simple acts of fun as harmful. Singing happy birthday to a scout comes to mind. Im starting to fear we will eventually require one adult accompany every scout in all scouting activities while at the same tim
  11. >>The other thing to watch for is that your SPL becomes the troop nag, even if it is just among this group of offending boys.
  12. A quote from the Principles Of Scoutmastership In Relation Io The Boy Development. If a boy is to learn that helping other people is worthwhile, his practice of helping in Scouting must be accompanied by satisfaction and his failure to help must be accompanied by annoyance. The satisfaction or annoyance is greater if it comes from within. Everyone has good responses, but our job is to encourage the Scout to voluntarily change his behavior because he knows it is the right thing to do. Telling him he must change in a Scoutmaster conference or Scoutmaster Minute doesnt typically motivat
  13. >>On the other hand, youth need to respect adults, at least partly, simply because they "are" adults. We have far too many people who seem to think "whatever 'I' want, feel, or think is all that matters", and that they therefore can ignore or disrespect anyone with whom they disagree.
  14. LOL, that's pretty good, but I think it was somehting like "Mmmmm, sweet and tasty." Yep, I had to find a really good Troop Guide for that patrol. I'm always encouraging agressive names like: Lions, tigers or bears. A lot scouts today are into video game names. I don't play video games enough to know if they are agressive. Of course I used to be a Bob White, but we were clever and held our own. Barry
  15. If the patrol was a few nerdy kids looking to improve their patrol stature, I'd probably consider it. The patrol name that personally gave me the most trouble was a bunch of new scouts that called themselves the Peach patrol. PEACH PATROL! That was just wrong. Barry
  16. I'm sure this happened in our troop, but I don't remember it. Which makes me think I didn't get involved. So maybe this is one time you don't have to do anything. Let the patrol figure it out while you just sit back in the shade and watch. Barry
  17. Well this explains why every troop is different. 1. We handled it through the PLC. In our troop the scouts have the floor and run the show. If an adult wants to say something, anything, he has to get permission from the scout in charge. Adults never put their sign up first, they either waited for a youth leader to put up the sign, or requested a youth get the groups attention so they could speak. Also, we purposely did not yell or rant in our troop because we wanted the youth leader to learn how to control a group without yelling at them. I always told the scouts that yelling is a sign of
  18. Boy I read this and felt I could write a book on the question. Its not as simple as the question seems because programs evolve as they mature in their particular environment. But, after thinking about it, I think there two things that we did to make it work: PLC meetings and communication. To start off, for those who arent familiar me, I was the SM of a very boy run program. While I was SM, my personal philosophical approach to boy run was to develop the troop so that the adults never had to be around except for transportation. Our troop is different than most in that we had a Pla
  19. >>I am very active at District and Council levels and am becoming more involved at National, so we get more attention than your average unit.
  20. >>Good Scoutmasters tend to be very desirable. So one solution is kick out that Scoutmaster and find one that isnt so good at the job. Barry
  21. >>The difference between practical jokes and hazing is your position. If you are the victim, then it is hazing.
  22. >>Now, back to my buddy, OneHour's, question: How do we cap it?
  23. >>I don't know that I have seen anything in the thread thus far that indicates the troop adults actively encouraged such behavior in order to reduce the number of young fellows in the troop.
  24. >>Expulsion from the troop could be justified for the younger and older scouts, but in my opinion especially the older ones who should know better.
  25. >>Our PLC knows what is acceptable and what isn't, and they pass this down to their Scouts.
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