We engaged with our local council as we had questions, as the old Radio Shack slogan went, "you've got questions, we've got blank stares" was in full force.
Some of the questions we had went to what is next. Uniforms, Duty to God, Outdoor, family camping for Scouts, and the first answer was "No, none of that is changing" and we asked "How do you know if you claim to not have known about this?"
Best engagement went when they advised "I think we can all agree that Girls and leadership is important and BSA can do yada yada". Our input was that no we may not all agree on that. We feel that we can all agree the North Korean nuclear program is not great, not sure BSA is the one to handle that. Yes a bad analogy but connecting two non related items may not effectively make your point.
Some discussion on that BSA was not like other World Scouting movements with regard to gender, our position was I am pretty sure there are a myriad of items we are not similar to with the World Scouting movement, did that mean we would be emulating those also?
Then the point that girls were already participating so let's make it official. My response was so if enough units do something outside of policy, rather than address that the go forward plan is to change the policy to make everyone compliant?
I asked why nothing beyond the press release and nothing on council web page, or any social media. If this was absolutely the best thing since sliced bread, why not own it and run with it. They said plans are still be drawn up and will be communicated. As has been noted, to say that National fumbled this change is being kind. They have zero idea how to engage in change management. If they truly believed the support was as deep and "unanimous" as reported then 10/11/2017 would be the best day ever for scouting in the USA.
Pretty sure the single gender dens and single gender troops are really nothing but a straw man. The reality (from the BOY Scout perspective) to gin up a troop from scratch is daunting at best. We are a large troop, 100+ and do 14 or so outdoor events per year. Just moving away from the Church is a lesson in logistics. If the CO decides to do a Girl troop, even if we are separate, how long before the parents there are campaigning to roll it into one unit. After all, they are already trained, why don't those leader just welcome the new scouts. Then we will go from a community supporting troop to the bad guys.
As they said in Red October - This business will get out of control. It will get out of control and we'll be lucky to live through it.