I recently went for Brotherhood after getting back into my lodge after 2 years away. I made a commitment to be more active and give back to the program I enjoyed so much as a youth. I studied my handbook and went back through jump-start. I made flash cards about the Ordeal ceremony's meanings and the OA's history. I thought i was prepared about a month out of our 2nd Ordeal and sent my $15 in for the Brotherhood fee.
I arrived for Brotherhood at appropriate time and was asked where my walking stick was? Didn't know it was needed, so i just grabbed a stick from the woods as did everyone else who showed up. 28 of us were there. We were told to carve our initials in the stick. ( Good thing most of us had knives.) We then then lined up and was asked individually for the Admonition. Me first, No problem! I've been reciting this stuff like Bible versus. Next guy " I don't know." Next guy " I do hereby promise..", I'm thinking, are you serious?
Now it's time for Brotherhood walk. We went to staged areas along hiking trail. Completed a connect the dots worksheet on the Ordeal principals. Then to a share your favorite Scout memory. Then everyone circle up and sing the song. Recite the Oath. Here is the symbol. I was feeling kind of disappointed honestly. But not as cheated as being given a "pre-filled out" letter to the Chief that i signed my name to and checked some boxes. I genuinely had thought about my letter for a month now. I had wrote rough drafts and up until an hour before sat in my tent writing down my thoughts of the Scouting program and how I could help the organization.
We all completed the Brotherhood walk and finished it of with the presentation ceremony. I was happy..but I felt cheated.
Most disturbing was after. A member stated to another " all we need is 15 more and we will be at 30% ". Was this done to meet some quota?
Am I wrong to think this should not be a "you pay, you pass" thing?
Bring on the heat!
- Tim
I arrived for Brotherhood at appropriate time and was asked where my walking stick was? Didn't know it was needed, so i just grabbed a stick from the woods as did everyone else who showed up. 28 of us were there. We were told to carve our initials in the stick. ( Good thing most of us had knives.) We then then lined up and was asked individually for the Admonition. Me first, No problem! I've been reciting this stuff like Bible versus. Next guy " I don't know." Next guy " I do hereby promise..", I'm thinking, are you serious?
Now it's time for Brotherhood walk. We went to staged areas along hiking trail. Completed a connect the dots worksheet on the Ordeal principals. Then to a share your favorite Scout memory. Then everyone circle up and sing the song. Recite the Oath. Here is the symbol. I was feeling kind of disappointed honestly. But not as cheated as being given a "pre-filled out" letter to the Chief that i signed my name to and checked some boxes. I genuinely had thought about my letter for a month now. I had wrote rough drafts and up until an hour before sat in my tent writing down my thoughts of the Scouting program and how I could help the organization.
We all completed the Brotherhood walk and finished it of with the presentation ceremony. I was happy..but I felt cheated.
Most disturbing was after. A member stated to another " all we need is 15 more and we will be at 30% ". Was this done to meet some quota?
Am I wrong to think this should not be a "you pay, you pass" thing?
Bring on the heat!
- Tim


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