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  1. You have to remember, NJ, that for a lot of people, Eagle Scout is the big thing that they have. One in four Eagle Scouts, I'm told, values his Eagle Scout more than his college degree.

     

    While it might not make a situation more dire, it certainly is a serious step, one that can send a serious message.

  2. Thinking of God

     

    I remember a poster with a montage of pictures: a playing childtoo young to think of God; a young fellow on a motorbiketoo self-assured to think of God; a newlywed coupletoo happy to think of God; a man at a desktoo busy to think of God; a woman in bedtoo tired to think of God; and a tombstonetoo late to think of God.

     

    Short but powerful.

     

  3. OK, a couple of suggestions.

     

    First of all, troop guides. Older scouts that help younger ones in the patrol setting. They explain and help the patrol leader assert himself. They shouldn't "take over," just help out and be more of a mentor for the patrol leader.

     

    Secondly, maybe you don't want to have patrols of the exact same age, but something close to it. If patrols consist of all different levels, the older scouts will control while the younger scouts are shut out. Try mixing up maybe two years of scouts. Six and seventh graders, eighth and ninth, tenth on up, etc. Move the scouts up when they change due to age, and make it a ceremonious occasion. That way, when the younger scouts enter their patrol, there will be existing leadership from the year prior, there will be a mystique about the patrol leader, and they won't feel alienated.

     

    Just a couple of thoughts.

  4. I don't believe that it is appropriate for any forms of sexual promiscuity or deviance to be promoted by the BSA. If there is a highly promiscuous heterosexual couple who wanted to gain entrance into my troop I would say no. Same with those who practice the old standbys of bestiality and incest. Same with those who are nudists. If they want to do their thing that's fine, but then they will have to deal with the consequences of their actions.

  5. Try making your own service. Base it on the twelve points of the Scout Law. Try to find different biblical passages that represent each. Offer time for individual prayer and reflection. Add in other religious bits. Works well, gets boys to think about religious life in a new way, and is non-denominational.

     

    Just a suggestion.

  6. The only time I have even heard of such an action being considered was in a clear case of menace. A boy brought his own box of matches to camp and attempted to burn down the Scoutmaster's canvas tent (luckily no one was inside). The incident happened at 10:00, and he was out of the camp and Scouting before lunchtime.

  7. LongHaul,

     

    You hit the nail on the head. So many idealists want peace, which is not bad. However, they are willing to go to such extremes to get it that it becomes dangerous. I can just imagine what would've happened if this attitude would have prevailed during World War II. We would be "peacefully negotiating" with Adolf Hitler and telling him why he shouldn't annihilate over 10 million people. Idealism, though admirable, is not often practical.

  8. I have a patch from our lodge's first fellowship back in 1973. Wouldn't take it off for the world.

     

    I also know of a few who still wear their lodge flaps from before the merger--Chequah 194 pride runs deep. Illegal? Yes. But one form of nostalgia? Definitely.

  9. Very good sctmom, the respect is flowering....

     

    Very few statistics regarding this issue are bias-free. However, after all of the studies I've seen, I'd feel pretty safe in saying that 2-5% of Americans are homosexual and 35% of pedophiles are homosexual. After that, however...

     

    Thanks for your debate style as well.

  10. Leadership skill #1-Knowing and using your resources.

     

    Just ask...

    I know of a troop that asked a nationally recognized birder who lived nearby to come in and counsel bird study. The man (who helped illustrate and compile the National Geographic field guide to birds among other things) liked it so much he came back as a leader.

     

    As a Bird Study counselor through summer camp, the week the man was at camp I learned more about identifying birds by sound than ever before (I was up to almost thirty by the end of the week).

  11. Just from what you tell me, I feel you should attempt to move to another camp next year. If this camp does not have basic services or will not accomodate requests, you should pick up your troop and bring them elsewhere.

     

    Scout camps should not be allowed to deny boys without a good reason.

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