If you are not happy with the way your pack is being run the only thing you can do, other than finding a new pack, is to get involved. I was new to scouting in September 2003 and ran into what sounds like a similar circumstance. I went to the the meetings (our committie constists of adult leaders or their reps and we have no charter support which is very common)and became more involved and probably more annoying. Go to your district round tables and get info for your district, etc.
Be careful or you will be asked to be Cubmaster, which you don't need to be qualified for, just have the he