"First perhaps we need to define our terms, from MacScouter who says:  
  
If you are paid to do Scouting, you are called a Professional.  
If you are not paid to do Scouting, you are called a Volunteer.  
If you pay to do Scouting, you are called... ... A Scouter  
  
So, you love people, its the public you can't stand?  
  
Other than saying, we can only process the paperwork we receive, I don't know as there will ever be a solution " 
  
I'll take those terms.  Not what we use 'round the office, but they  make sense. Thank-you. 
  
I really do apologize if I'm making myself look nasty and bitter, but I do hate it when I have to send people away from my desk unhappy--I like to think my motives are in the right place.  Believe it or not, but I'm usually sent as the diplomat when things are ugly 'tween council and volunteers. 
  
I work in both a crew and at the office, so I suppose I see a different perspective than those of you who are just working with the youth.  You see the mistakes people in my position make... and I get to see the mistakes those in your positions make (probably not a reality you want to hear, but it's true...) 
  
I guess I shall just keep smiling and giving what explanation I can.   
  
Perhaps candy at my desk will at least make them a little happier...