aquaticeagle

"Quote' the professionals work FOR the Volunteers not the other way around'." Not quite. Professionals do not work for the volunteers. Professionals work for the Scout Executive. A District Executive is the Executive Officer of the district and person who is responsible for its overall success. The District Executive works in support of, not for, his volunteers. If you have either a group of district volunteers who think they manage the DE or a DE who thinks he is the boss of his district and his word is law, everyone involved needs to sit down and receive a wake-up call from a succe

"Explain to me why I need a Unit commissioner....... When I want answers I just call or email my DE." Unit Commissioners exist so that units have what they need without having to call the DE every five minutes. DEs have an incredible amount of things to do without answering the phone for every question a unit might have. As a DE, I'm more than happy to help my units out when they need it. With 67 units though, I would never get anything productive done if I every unit called me once a week to ask a question.

Having been both a SPL and DC I think the DC job is more difficult. It can be hard to get peers to follow your lead since they are of similar age. Being an SPL means that you have several peers that are your assistants: ASPL, PL, APL. That makes the job easier because now you have an entire group of scouts that are taking charge of a troop. As DC you are the only scout that is taking any charge of a den or pack. The only fellow leaders you have are adults. Being the only youth that has any "authority" can be quite daunting. I remember it was for me. I had to work harder to get the Cubs to foll

Okay. Since you aren't going to discuss the topic at hand, I guess this conversation is over. It's getting very tiresome repeating my statements over and over.

I looked it up about a year ago and could only find where the Boy Scouts had stopped their affiliation with UU. I just verified what you stated on the BSA website though so I guess my source was bad. Thanks!

"You seem to want to focus on why smokers & drinkers are still allowed to be Scouters & homosexuals aren't. To me that's pushing a personal agenda since you are ignoring the fact that big fat slobs are allowed to be Scouters yet that doesn't fit the definition of 'physically fit' either." Amazingly, you are still completely missing the point. This entire thread is based on how the BSA defines "physically strong". The BSA doesn't include "big fat slobs" in their definition so that is why I'm not talking about that. Get it? I really don't know any other way to explain my point.

I agree OldGreyEagle. I have been very persistent on this thread but at least I am paying attention to what the thread is about. When I say "talking to a brick wall" I mean talking to someone who refuses to discuss the actual topic and keeps throwing up points that are not relevant to this discussion.

"You just can't pick & chose what factors you want to consider! And just because they aren't specifically defined in the oath doesn't lessen their importance. An overweight slob is just as physically unfit as a two-pack a day smoker! This whole thread is someone pushing an agenda, not a debate on what physically strong is." I agree that obesity and all of those other things are not examples of being "physically strong". I never said that any of those things that you mentioned are less important in a discussion of what it is to be "physically strong". I never said that once. The r

"I'm not going to tell you anything like that, aquaticeagle! You seem to be stuck on the BSA not enforcing one point of the Scout Oath yet being physically strong is also effected by other factors besides smoking & drinking but you don't seem to want to take those into consideration. And my point is if you are gonna make that type of stand, ya better be ready to apply the same logic to the entire Oath. If not, you are pushing nothing more than you own personal agenda." evmori I agree that "physically strong" is affected by the other factors that you mentioned. I never said they w

"Does the BSA kick out overweight people? Do they boot those who have had premarital sex? Have they booted leaders who are adulterers? To they kick out very low IQ people or those who are mentally deficient? My father-in-law is 89 years old & has had both knees, shoulders & a hip replaced! He quit smoking 50 years ago & only had an occasional beer! His body isn't serving him well & his life isn't over! What exactly is your point? Do you want homosexuals to be Scout leaders?" I'm not sure of your point in writing any of the above except the last sentence. Why woul

Okay once again, it doesn't matter what "physically strong" means to me because the discussion is not about that. The discussion is partly about why the BSA ignores its own definition of "physically strong". Here it is...again: ". . . To keep myself physically strong, . . . Take care of your body so that it will serve you well for an entire lifetime. That means eating nutritious foods, getting enough sleep, and exercising regularly to build strength and endurance. it also means avoiding harmful drugs, alcohol, tobacco, and anything else that can harm your health." - Boy Scout Handboo

I agree that to be scouts should avoid smoking, drinking and illegal drugs as the BSA definition states but I also understand that it would be very unrealistic to expect that of every member. Again, the discussion of this thread is not what "physically strong" means but why the BSA chooses to ignore that very specific part of the Oath while enforcing the part that is very ambiguous and not specific. Yes, I understand the purpose of the PM system but I wonder why you wouldn't want everyone in the discussion to see the "extremely immoral and corrupt" part about homosexuals in society. This

evmori, please don't do what people were doing at the beginning of this thread and put words in my mouth. I never defined "physically strong" I simply provided the definition that the BSA has written in every Boy Scout handbook and asked why they don't enforce that part of the Oath. Also, in regards to your PM, why would we be destined for an extremely corrupt and immoral society if homosexuality became normal? Can you back that up?

What's your point?

"Shoulda been more specific. Homosexual couples can't procreate without outside help where traditional couples can. And yeah I know not all traditional couples can & need outside help but not 100% of the time." Why does it matter? The fact is that some straight couples can't conceive either so if you're going to say that homosexuals shouldn't be together for that reason then you might as well say that sterile men and women should remain single and anyone else who has no chance of conception. You gonna try to tackle that?

"So, let him do the research to prove me wrong if it so important to the discussion. He started it without such research, he can do the work. There is plenty of information out there that supports what I wrote. And really to me, its also just logical." - Eagledad No buddy, you got it backwards. You made the claim so the burden of proof is yours, not mine. Anyone in science that makes a claim has the responsibility to back it up, not the audience. Don't make a claim if you can't back it up. Otherwise you just look foolish.

"The purpose of religion isn't to bring people together." History has certainly proven that. It has shown to do the exact opposite. Why anyone would subscribe to that is beyond me.

ScoutNut, maybe you should calm down a little. That's not even the topic of this discussion. It is something that I have obviously realized is not the case with every pack, which is why I clarified it. I don't know why you're repeating your 17+ years of experience as if I've been repeating my experience over and over. Why don't we just get back to the topic that this thread is supposed to be about?

"I think what is being referred to is the inability of homosexual couples to procreate within their relationship." Just because sex between two homosexual people can't produce a child doesn't mean that the couple cannot procreate. Homosexual couples can have children through implantation or artificial insemination. They can also adopt which is something that more people should be doing anyway.

"I think he is referring to when one finds they have a homosexual in their family, they have no choice but to shun them. That destroys the structure of the family." That may be true but if that is his point, I don't see how it's relevant. Why should bigoted family members be reason enough to discriminate against an entire group of people? People are shunned by their families for many reasons that have nothing to do with sexual preference. Children are shunned for not taking over the family business, dating outside of race, etc. "Careful, aquaticeagle. If you don't qualify that reques

"Homosexuality is harmful to the family structure." How so? Because the kids will grow up outside of a box and will learn that the world is not Pleasantville? I can pretty much guarantee you that alcoholic or drug-abusing parents and parents who die at an early age from lung cancer have a much greater impact on a childhood than a child being raised by two women or two men. Do you have any support for your statement that homosexuality is harmful to the family structure? Please provide it if you do.

Actually it is the same thing. It is discrimination. Taking away the rights of people that are out to do no harm to anyone else is discrimination whether it be about race, ethnicity or sexual preference.

"I've never met a single Unitarian Universalist who says "Our faith is the best way to God" or who claims that our faith has all the answers" That's why the BSA doesn't affiliate with UU anymore. Apparently the BSA doesn't like tolerance or open-mindedness.

I didn't change the facts, I clarified something. When most people (in my 20 years of experience in scouting) discuss fund-raising, they are talking about everything outside of popcorn sales because with most units (again in my 20 years of scouting experience) popcorn sales are expected.

"Hmm, so if it not dangerous in your mind, it is OK for the rest of us? That's scary." - Eagledad Where did I say anything about what is dangerous in someone's mind? I said if it harms other people then it is not right. Don't put words in my mouth. "You just dont want to make the effort to find a youth scouting program that agrees with your values, so you are stomping your feet acting self righteous." - Eagledad No, I grew up with the BSA values that are taught. I observed them and lived by them for almost 20 years because I didn't know about the ugly side of the BSA. The side t