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Chapter 11 Announced - Part 5 - RSA Ruling
MYCVAStory replied to Eagle1993's topic in Issues & Politics
Yes, and what time will also hold are recurring MONTHLY fees that will NOT be paid for the time being by anyone other than the attorneys that formed and stay a part of the coalition. Every victim should be hopeful that those increasing balances don't impact the coalition's supporting what's BEST for VICTIMS and there's no rush to settle for less money sooner so bills can be paid. -
Chapter 11 Announced - Part 4 Revised Plan
MYCVAStory replied to Eagle1993's topic in Issues & Politics
By virtue of the current RSA those three cannot until October 18 deadline is reached OR the debtor (BSA) ends the RSA voluntarily by submitting a new plan thereby invalidating the existing RSA. -
Chapter 11 Announced - Part 4 Revised Plan
MYCVAStory replied to Eagle1993's topic in Issues & Politics
And a shout out around then to "then now" as well! -
Chapter 11 Announced - Part 4 Revised Plan
MYCVAStory replied to Eagle1993's topic in Issues & Politics
It is 99% about this. -
Chapter 11 Announced - Part 4 Revised Plan
MYCVAStory replied to Eagle1993's topic in Issues & Politics
Sorry for your loss. I appreciate you sharing the story. A good discussion of "keeping secrets": https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-compassion-chronicles/201903/why-adult-victims-childhood-sexual-abuse-dont-disclose -
Chapter 11 Announced - Part 4 Revised Plan
MYCVAStory replied to Eagle1993's topic in Issues & Politics
https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s00038-012-0426-1 Methods We included studies published between 2002 and 2009 that reported CSA in children below 18 years. We performed a random effects meta-analysis and analyzed moderator variables by meta-regression. Results Fifty-five studies from 24 countries were included. According to four predefined types of sexual abuse, prevalence estimates ranged from 8 to 31 % for girls and 3 to 17 % for boys. Nine girls and 3 boys out of 100 are victims of forced intercourse. Heterogeneity between primary studies was high in all analyses. And from https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1300/J070v12n01_05 Few empirical studies have been conducted in this area but research suggests that few victims tell anyone about child sexual abuse as children I really don't want to debate further the actual number or percentage of participant abuse while in the BSA. If it wasn't a problem, and wasn't continuing to occur, we wouldn't be where we are today. Period. -
Chapter 11 Announced - Part 4 Revised Plan
MYCVAStory replied to Eagle1993's topic in Issues & Politics
I do not use this forum normally for one-on-one debate. That said, it appeared to me that your assumption was that there were fewer than 82,000 cases of abuse. If I was wrong and you believe there were more, my apologies. If your assumption is that we will never know the true number then we both agree. My point was that when 16% is generally accepted as being the prevalence, and this as been cited consistently, then before anyone assumes the amount in abuse is less in scouting they should do the math. -
Chapter 11 Announced - Part 4 Revised Plan
MYCVAStory replied to Eagle1993's topic in Issues & Politics
Multi-tasking while the hearing proceeds..... Your comments will certainly create head-shaking. I'd like you to consider one accepted principle of abuse, especially among men. That is the fact that it takes years and decades for people, again, especially men, to come forward as victims of sexual abuse. While the validation process will determine the number of unduplicated valid claims I'd like you to consider that there will also be many many victims who have not come forward, or never will, or may later in life. PLEASE do your research into the prevalence and behavior of sexual abuse victims, especially males. Here's a place to start: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/15894146/ "Contact CSA was reported by 16% of males" Again, PLEASE spend some time educating yourself regarding this topic and ask questions. The shared experience in this forum, while not always in agreement, really helps understanding this topic not only quantitatively but also qualitatively. You, like many, might find your assumptions changed. -
Chapter 11 Announced - Part 4 Revised Plan
MYCVAStory replied to Eagle1993's topic in Issues & Politics
I really don't care what his motivation is. Just remember, while LC assets might appear attractive to some the prospect of hundreds of LC bankruptcy proceedings, those expenses and decreased available compensation for victims, shouldn't be. -
Chapter 11 Announced - Part 4 Revised Plan
MYCVAStory replied to Eagle1993's topic in Issues & Politics
Of course. Wouldn't it be interesting if we lived in a world where an amount was accepted, escrowed, and if there are invalid claims the money were "returned" to the insurers. But, that would leave less for valid claims. The fight to provide settlement money to the people who in part paid the policy premiums is going to get uglier and take more time than any victim wants to spend. But, victims will get ONE shot at the largest settlement trust possible if they can stay patient when it's hardest. Insurers know that time is on their side and they do everything possible to exploit it. -
Chapter 11 Announced - Part 4 Revised Plan
MYCVAStory replied to Eagle1993's topic in Issues & Politics
Absolutely. Unfortunately, that has to be balanced against the amount of time it will take to validate claims. No one wants to wait YEARS for that to happen before a vote can be take. That's the problem with addressing mass sexual tort via bankruptcy and why the best TDP and settlement amount must be fought for now. -
Chapter 11 Announced - Part 4 Revised Plan
MYCVAStory replied to Eagle1993's topic in Issues & Politics
Yes. This reminds me of two items. One, the TCC has said that it is an advocate of a robust system of claim validation and that one dollar going to an invalid claim is one dollar denied to a valid one. As the saying goes, to those who are given much, much is expected. We can all argue what a "robust" validation process will look like but that's where a Trust and validation professionals they hire (yes, there are firms that specialize in this as it relates to abuse) come in. If you expect the maximum payment though it really is reasonable to expect that claimants will do more than take a little time to fill out a single form. Will this require interviews and take time? Probably, but given the number of claims that die was cast. I'm sure this forum and others will do a great service to share experiences as a process is known. Second, this comment also gets at the protests of the insurers; that there are scores of bogus claims. To that I say a resounding "SO WHAT?" If there are bogus claims, they are discovered, or those committing fraud take an early low payout it does one thing, leaves more money for deserving victims. It's exactly why the TCC and Coalition are fighting for the maximum amount from the insurers. Only by doing so, and having a robust validation system, will funds remain that aren't more insulting to victims than would be otherwise. Did people see some late-night infomercial, say "I was in the scouts. I could use some money" and call an 800 number? Beats me. What I do know is that I was abused and beyond proof of that impact and reports from my counselors I'm happy to sit down and tell my story. I've spoken to other victims and I've spoken to someone who has had to interview them. His opinion was the same as mine. When it comes to child sexual abuse it doesn't take long to know when someone is telling the truth. I really do hope that most victims will embrace and encourage a robust validation process instead of being scared by it. If you were a victim it will help you and all true victims. Oh, and occupy a few months of our time on this forum too! 🙂 -
Chapter 11 Announced - Part 4 Revised Plan
MYCVAStory replied to Eagle1993's topic in Issues & Politics
So people should only report when it's obvious, and keep their mouths shut when they aren't sure? That opinion would make abusers everywhere smile. It's why we need systems where every concern is raised and if 99 are looked into, and cleared, but the one that is "real" is found then the system works. I was abused and went on to be an adult volunteer when my children were in scouting. I was hyper-vigilant never to be in a situation where my behavior could be questioned and I demanded the same of those around me including raising ANY concerns within the troop so they could be addressed immediately. The issue of what "did or didn't happen" is too important to ever ignore. -
Chapter 11 Announced - Part 4 Revised Plan
MYCVAStory replied to Eagle1993's topic in Issues & Politics
Agreed. Lots of details looming right now but I suspect down the road many will seem small compared to the details of how any Trust and Awards Process are actually being operated. -
Chapter 11 Announced - Part 4 Revised Plan
MYCVAStory replied to Eagle1993's topic in Issues & Politics
Not entirely accurate. If memory serves, the insurers had significant issues with his appointment. The TCC if memory serves was strongly advocating for Paul Finn, who had significant experience with abuse cases, so that left the other parties to have a leg up on selecting "their" choices to comprise the three mediators. We need to remember that this is a pretty small and specialized pool so many bankruptcy and trust professionals work together as partners in the morning and then find themselves as opponents in the afternoon! This isn't to promote Green's becoming the Trustee but to at least point out that he has experience as one. Let's hope that whoever becomes the trustee if that becomes reality will understand the importance of communicating with the "classes" he/she oversees. -
Chapter 11 Announced - Part 4 Revised Plan
MYCVAStory replied to Eagle1993's topic in Issues & Politics
Given that there is another round of mediation starting tomorrow, and a reasonable guess would be that it is to address issues like the chartering organizations, as well as another round of hearings coming up next week, the TCC has rescheduled its August Town Hall to a better date. Here's the filing and explanation: NOTICE OF AUGUST 16, 2021 VIRTUAL TOWN HALL MEETING HOSTED BY THE OFFICIAL TORT CLAIMANTS’ COMMITTEE PLEASE TAKE NOTICE that when the Official Tort Claimants’ Committee (the “TCC”) was formed it embraced three key goals: (1) represent ALL abuse Survivors, (2) work to achieve the most compensation possible for all Survivors, and (3) keep Survivors informed of the bankruptcy process as the TCC works to achieve these goals. To that last point, the TCC has held monthly meetings to provide updates and field questions. These meetings are viewed by thousands of Survivors and their counsel. Normally we hold these meetings the second Thursday of every month but when necessary we change that date to provide the best possible information at the best time. Now that the hearing for the approval of the Disclosure Statement has been moved to August 25, 2021 at 10:00 a.m. (ET), the approval of the Restructuring Support Agreement (“RSA”) moved to August 12-13, 2021, and another multi-day mediation scheduled for August 3-5, 2021, the TCC changed the next meeting to August 16, 2021 at 8:00 p.m. (ET). Please do not take this delay to signal anything positive or negative about the process going forward. By scheduling the next meeting on August 16, 2021, the TCC will be in a better position to inform you about the status of the RSA, any mediation developments, and what to expect for the Disclosure Statement Hearing. If the above the schedule changes, the TCC might decide to change the time and date of the next Town Hall meeting. The members of the TCC and their dedicated professionals continue to be fully engaged in every part of this process. We ask for patience until August 16, 2021 so that we can provide with the most up to date and thorough status of the restructuring process. In the meantime, stay strong and please check the TCC website WWW.TCCBSA.COM for any updates or send your questions to BSASurvivors@pszjlaw.com. The details for the next meeting are below. https://pszjlaw.zoom.us/j/89421964324 (no registration required) or Phone number: 888- 788-0099 (Toll Free), Webinar ID: 894 2196 4324. -
Chapter 11 Announced - Part 4 Revised Plan
MYCVAStory replied to Eagle1993's topic in Issues & Politics
Apparently someone's office got a call to suggest the BSA could use a shout-out. Every victim can now reflect on what anniversary it is of their abuse. It's time for the court to be reminded of that before this hearing ends. -
Chapter 11 Announced - Part 4 Revised Plan
MYCVAStory replied to Eagle1993's topic in Issues & Politics
Reminds me of the funny red berets we wore in Scouting for a while. I was always envious of the Smokey Bear hats. Alas, I didn't have a good hat head. I'm also starting to think that before this is over we need a mass Zoom meeting to watch these hearings live and share commentary! -
Chapter 11 Announced - Part 4 Revised Plan
MYCVAStory replied to Eagle1993's topic in Issues & Politics
Nor do I. But, 4 1/2 years ago my wife got on a bus to Washington with 50 other women to meet thousands more. She put on a funny pink hat and marched. She came home and volunteered to support a candidate, something she had never done. That candidate was elected and re-elected and is now effecting change. That model has been repeated across the Country for all kinds of candidates on both sides of the aisle. It starts with an unwillingness to accept that things won'tr change. We all want change in some form so that past victims are treated adequately and there are no victims in the future. Whether one or both of those are unrealistic, that will only be the case if people don't speak up now at the grassroots level so that those on top hear the rumblings down below. Let's keep encouraging each other to speak out and respecting those who can't or aren't ready. Thanks for fighting that fight brother. -
Chapter 11 Announced - Part 4 Revised Plan
MYCVAStory replied to Eagle1993's topic in Issues & Politics
Agreed. I also do believe that change will come from those most impacted, the victims. We have lived in the shadows for far too long. Our Society's image of masculinity made that our safe space because it was expected. It's still a safe place. But, times have changed and our abuse is known and a part of the "me too" era when sexual abuse is being confronted. Now, victims who are able must speak out of they expect change. Documentaries have been made covering the hearings and trial and stories connected to USA Gymnastics. That was approximately 500 victims and while one is too many BSA victims could understandably be scratching their heads and asking "What about the tens of thousands of men?" For victims this seems like it's taking forever to reach the end of the story. But, if real change is going to happen it isn't the end, it's the beginning. There are stories to tell, documentaries to create, investigations to be completed. Remember Santayana's words: "Those who do not remember the past are condemned to repeat it." Victims must make sure that what happened is not lost to time. There is plenty of blame to go around; the BSA, insurers, SOLs, attorneys, bankruptcy system and more. But if we expect TRUE change then it must be demanded by those who were victims and feel able, and it must happen at the grass-roots level. If you can, write and call every one of your elected officials. Better yet, ask to meet with them personally. Reach out to local media. Scream, yell. But in the words attributed to Ghandi, but he never actually said them, "You must be the change in the world you want to see." Many aren't ready but if you can speak out in your small piece of this world then please do. If enough of us do the possibility of change only increases. -
Chapter 11 Announced - Part 4 Revised Plan
MYCVAStory replied to Eagle1993's topic in Issues & Politics
Or just perhaps the BSA and AD-Hoc got cold feet about excluding the Charter Organizations. Some may not like the payment of the Coalition professional fees but I bet a whole lot of victims would be irate if the charter organizations were included in an injunction without providing any compensation. -
Chapter 11 Announced - Part 4 Revised Plan
MYCVAStory replied to Eagle1993's topic in Issues & Politics
My money is on the TCC. Remember, in bankruptcy, like politics, a day is a year. Much can and often changes quickly. "Dead" deals are resurrected miraculously. Also, just a reminder, the TCC will be providing its "take" on the situation in a week: NOTICE OF VIRTUAL TOWN HALL MEETINGS HOSTED BY THE OFFICIAL COMMITTEE OF BOY SCOUT ABUSE SURVIVORS The next TCC Town Hall will be held on Thursday, August 5, 2021, at 5pm PDT/8pm EDT. Zoom link: https://pszjlaw.zoom.us/j/89421964324 (no registration required) or Join by phone: 888-788-0099, meeting id 894 2196 4324 -
Chapter 11 Announced - Part 4 Revised Plan
MYCVAStory replied to Eagle1993's topic in Issues & Politics
That's a really good analogy. The hardest thing to do is be patient as this unfolds, and remain confident that the interests of victims are being fought for as best as possible. Victims are a strong and that strength has never been needed more than now. Another day...week..month...stay strong. -
Chapter 11 Announced - Part 4 Revised Plan
MYCVAStory replied to Eagle1993's topic in Issues & Politics
Well, welcome to the bankruptcy code. Code says that parties that make "substantial contributions" Discussion: https://www.abi.org/abi-journal/substantial-contribution-claims-a-new-perspective Since the Coalition was deemed a "mediation party" by the court the bar gets lowered on their making the substantial contribution claim. That said, the US Trustee is doing his job by holding parties to the strictest rules for reimbursement. Remember though that in many cases the Trustee basically "points things out" and then a party will provide a complete response to satisfy the Court. Regardless of the above, it's nice to know that the US Trustee is paying attention and weighing in regardless of the impact. No, I'm not a party making a "substantial contribution" worthy of reimbursement. But I wish I was 😉 -
Chapter 11 Announced - Part 4 Revised Plan
MYCVAStory replied to Eagle1993's topic in Issues & Politics
Thanks brothers. All will be good. I suspect the last 16 months has made us tough old bastards! I'm more interested in living vicariously through ThenNow as he heads to the sun.
