Our relationship existed long before the idea of starting a venture crew. It it will last far beyond. But, being a member of the leadership is important to him. I just don't want to cause trouble by joining. We are formally engaged, and our families where brought into making that decision so their 100% behind us. the links talk of sleeping arrangements and such of married couples. Even when we are married I have no problem with sleeping with the other girls. That doesnt bother me. I just want to join with him. we both do medal work with his uncle who runs the Madel work badge. He is