I thank all of you for your input. It was very helpful. Admittedly, I did not share the whole story because it was too lengthy to go into detail. Please just know that I have indeed exercised all levels of intervention...Committee Chair, DE, and, of course, National. I am a non-violent person and I live a high state of morality that I pass on to my scouts. The one thing that was missed in all of your comments is the presence of adult bullying. However petty to most (because they are not directly affected by it) it is still damaging. All of the bullying programs in society deals with chi