Thank you for your many answers. I apologize for the confusion. Many problems occured because somewhere, somehow, for some reason, a letter to someone-Troop, CO, District, adult who applied for leadership position, was not sent and/or received.
I guess this was what I really wanted to find out, that notification should have been sent. One small thing can change the world.
I should not have dumped all the problems in the disjointed way, but I did get a few answers and feedback there too.
So let's close this subject and hope something was learned.
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