Correct, it is what was said and not the fact it was a one on one. The young leader is 23 and I consider that young. The leader did not mention it to any other leader but to a parent nearby. He informed the scouts to "keep it a secret." Isn't this a violation? I've been trained through three or more different youth protection programs and they mention the secrecy as a red flag. Indeed, interviews with molested individuals mention innocent secrets at first. Now, I reiterate that there was no known sexual misconduct between this person and scouts. Talking trash is not appropriate and is a