Thank you all for your opinions and insight. I talked to more moms this morning at school drop off. Everyone of them said that they don''t want the boy to leave. They just want his mom to step up to the plate. I''m going to be sure to pass that on to my husband so it gets to the mom.
I realize that adhd kids are different. We had one a few years ago that earned his AOL and moved on. I don''t even think the problems with this scout is the adhd. I think it''s pdd, parental discipline disorder.