Wow thanks for all of the great and helpful replies! I really appreciate each of you taking the time to offer suggestions. I'm going to talk with the CM (he is brand new @ that position as well) and see if we can come up with a plan.
This may sound selfish but I have to remind myself why I got back into Scouting, for my son. So for me the most important thing is that my son has fun and enjoys Scouts as much as I do. Then a close second is that the other boys in the Den do the same.
I know it won't happen but I would love to see each of these boys go on to be Eagles because I know how much they will learn along the way that we help them for the rest of their lives. That said, first step...Bobcat.