Thanks to all that have replied. I was deliberatly vague, but maybe too much so. This is a contensious issue before the troop committee (which I'm a member of)
Two issues: One is with the writer - for this the parents consulted a lawyer. Second, is with the troop leaders who didn't inform the parents (yes they did find out accidentally). Does BSA policy require and/or expect leaders to inform the parents in such a situation.
CalicoPenn has some very good questions:
Letter was written to a DAC. Letter writer is a ASM. Select group was SM,ASM, and committee member. No invest