Wow! Thank you for all the support and helpful advice.
I checked out going to the CC, but discovered he is an elderly relative of the SM. I called the single mom and offered to share my tent. She had already gone out and gotten one, but was happy to talk a while. She is very frustrated. Like me, she had decided to go ahead and attend the campout and then make a decision. Unfortunately, her son, like mine, wants very nmuch to stay with all his buddies.
My husband and I sat down and had a talk with my son. My husband told him that he wasn't "raising any children who didn't respect hal