Dear Friends, Thanks so much for the support and heart-felt responses. We are already looking for another Troop. A friend of mine has tipped me off to a Troop in our town that is much smaller etc.etc. It might be more our speed.
As my father-in-law, may he rest in peace, the retired CIA agent used to say, 'it's not a nice world'...I *have* pointed out to my son that if he doesn't like what he is hearing, he can get up and walk away.
He was informed about the 'birds and the bees' years ago by me when he had a friend in the third grade who seemed far too sexually advanced for a child