Thank you all for your advice and ideas. I am fairly new to scout leadership, and dont yet know all the rules and regs. I have been to youth protection, and baloo, as well as multiple position specific trainings, but still questions come up and it is nice to know that i can get multiple responses and ideas from this site. I will always turn to my district office for questions I cant answer, but i also like to know what others might think. In this case, we have a solution agreed upon by the district and the camp, the mom will bring her own tent for her and the kids, and her fiance will sleep