David CO

The statute of limitations may have expired, but a lot of people don't want us to talk about how things were in the old days. This is particularly true if some of those activities or practices would be seen as youth protection violations today.

I have no advice to offer, but I will say that I am bewildered when I see children dressed inappropriately. I am not just talking about temperature. I would include overly casual dress. I don't understand why these kids are making such a fuss about their clothes. I was wearing a coat and tie to church by the time I was in 1st grade. We wore rain coats and galoshes to school on rainy days. No complaints. Back then, we were always expected to wear hats outdoors. I had a cute little newsboy cap in grade school. Later on, I wore a baseball cap. Not the one-size-fits-all kind. It was one

If it was scheduled just a few days later, you might be shouting, "May Day! May Day!"

No need to apologize. You made some very good comments in both of your posts. I agreed with almost everything you said. I intended my comments to be about arguing and fighting at scout meetings/ OA elections (in general), and not specifically focused on any of the 3 examples discussed in this thread. My mistake. I didn't make this clear enough.

Sure. Call the IH. Call the council. Call the police. Call anyone and everyone you feel you should call... just so long as you walk away from the fight. Do not fight at scout meetings.

If you have an island to trade, I'm sure there would be some settlers out there who would be willing to accommodate you.

I was upset when BSA first required us to sign up in and help pay for its insurance policy. My CO already had plenty of insurance. My opinion was that the BSA insurance policy was just another lame excuse for BSA to step in and tell us what to do. It was a power grab by national and the councils against the Chartered Organizations.

Yes. When I was an IH, I would have wanted to receive that phone call. I'm sure that I would have already heard something from several of the scouts/parents. If the janitor was there, he would have called me too. Depending on the OA advisor's actions at the incident, I may have also had a chat with his IH.

I am a little confused by this. Why would you believe I was addressing my comments to you? I gave an up-arrow and a positive reply to your post.

Most likely, the CO doesn't care one iota about the OA or it's elections. It might not even care much about the scout unit. It does care about arguments and fights taking place on it's premises. I tend to think first and foremost about the CO. If I gave the scoutmaster the keys and left him in charge of the building/gym/hall, I would expect all visitors to obey him (or leave). No exceptions. If other volunteers disagree with my scoutmaster, they have every right to say so (somewhere else), but not in my building. Once they leave the property, they are free to say whatever they want

Things should never get to that point. If it does, it is a clear indication that the OA advisor messed up. He should have packed up his OA team and left the meeting long before that happened. We have the same problem in sports. Even though coaches and umpires have been trained to call off a game before letting things get too far out of hand, many people are overly reluctant to do it. They place too much importance on finishing the game. A game isn't worth fighting over. So, when an argument occurs at a scout meeting, who should walk away? It is certainly not the scoutmaster. The scou

Please sir, I want some...s'more.

Was that a joke?

The judge didn't think so. The newspaper didn't think so. The scout unit didn't think so. I think it is time you wake up and smell the coffee. A felony conviction is not insignificant.

Those extra-planetary visitors really aren't so bad. It's the ones from alternate universes that give me the most trouble, as they tend to become scout executives.

You have the right to invite or exclude anyone you want from your home. Likewise, others have the right to invite or exclude you. Under the circumstances, I think the scoutmaster is being very tolerant by allowing him to attend with supervision. The scoutmaster doesn't have to allow him to attend at all. My CO would not regard someone you are dating as being a family member. He is a guest. I would expect a guest to remain with the person who invited him, regardless of his personal history. Of course, next year, he would be considered a family member of his son.

Absolutely right. Just calmly leave the meeting.

An OA advisor thinking he has the right to confront a scoutmaster at his own meeting.

Nope. I doubt they're Heinlein fans.

Why stop there? How about Citizen of the Galaxy?

That's true. But I have seen younger scouts and older scouts become fast friends because of them sharing a common interest or hobby, particularly if that activity is something that only a few members of the unit might fully appreciate. People of very different worlds (ages, backgrounds, intelligence, and maturity) can sometimes find a special niche where they can interact and enjoy each others company as friends and equals. Scouting encourages boys to develop interests and hobbies, and share them with friends. That's why we have so many different merit badges.

I think it is rude to walk out on a merit badge counselor. A scout should put some though and effort into selecting a merit badge counselor. He should not only take into account the MBC's expertise and experience, he should also consider whether or not the MBC is someone he would be interested in getting to know (adult association). If a scout is too lazy or too disinterested to take this selection seriously, then he deserves to pay the price by sitting through a few boring sessions.

I think this may change with the inclusion of girls.

It happens sometimes in rural communities. It is usually more of an issue of economics. The community has to make a choice between losing their high school and consolidating with a neighboring district or bringing the JH into the HS building. Personally, I think it is odd that this generation of parents is so keen on age-separating and compartmentalizing their kids. Forget about adult association. They don't even want their kids associating with older boys.

I can think of several possible answers to that question, but I think he is referring to the other side of the political spectrum.