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To preface, I mostly work with 1st and 2nd year scouts as a ASM. Duty to God - If a boy is honest and has doubts and aint just feeling it--I give him the benefit of a doubt of course. I ask him to keep looking for the answer --be not so sure at his age if he know it --be respectful of his families and others beliefs. If he was shouting "there is no God!" yea I would have a problem too. Unfortunately many of the boys I work with have very weak parental religious role models. Also how are the Adult Leaders modeling Duty to God. I would crack down on the OMG's as well--they are disrespectful

This is a toughie. I would not sign but would expect a storm of you-know-what because the character issues were allowed to get this far. They can appeal and will probably get it. However, by not signing you send the correct signals to those who value the Eagle that it does matter. I try hard to see the best in all the boys I work with but there are a few that seem to be turning out to be little rule weasels slinking their way to Eagle. If I can say objectively they have met the requirement than I have signed off. So I can see the conflict. Either way you need to talk to the boy

I agree with B. Dweller. It is not crossing over--just a continuation. At most a compass, maybe a water bottle. Never a mess kit, I know our Boy Scouts have no need of them. Plan a good outing (as in outdoors).

I hope their Troop historian gets it all down! Will make some great stories and some good lessons learned!

Sorry for the slow reply...I had an injured boy scout at home. (I will say 1st aid is great to learn for home use! All is well) I am sorry about the problem dad. I know you hate to lose the boy but I agree that moving him into the Boy Scouts ASAP would be the best solution. Hovering parents is a problem but you initially mentioned that other than the problem dad that you had a great group. I had a great Webelos group of parents who pitched in but it also mean't they hovered a lot. It did create some significant separation problems when most of them crossed over to Boy Scouts. In

How far along are the Webelos? Are you close to the Boy Scout crossover?

Forgot about the time my friend in college talked me into coming home with him one break to his family farm in Georgia. Got to castrate the young bulls all the time he was saying "doesn't hurt them one bit!".

Age 14 worked in the back of a florist shop. Once was locked in the back of a refrigerated truck for an hour (it was pitch black) delivering flowers to a wedding. Had to dye tons of flowers everyday in the alley with a spray bottle. Everyday came home with my face and hands blue or green or red except for where my glasses were. Made a grand total of $1.25 an hour (1976). When the florists found out I was a scout they sent the 19 year old owners daughter to try to seduce me. I have fond memories of the kiss in the walk in refrigerator and the see through net top she wore that day. I told h

The timing is bad for us. We are doing our Spaghetti carryout dinner at $5 a head. Usually costs us $2-3 to make. Actually get 40% of sales are straight donations. Troop splits proceeds with boys.

Saw this on our council website. At first glance thought "cool, Florida is hurricane country -everyone buys up batteries at the start of hurricane season. However it seemed pretty expensive. I usually can buy batteries at a big box store in bulk at 50 cents each. These were $1 plus. Here is a link: http://www.boyscouting.com/springproduct.asp

We would do more within 90 minutes, push travelling lighter, and a little more fundraising from the boys. Our big problem is now hauling gear and trying to get away from a heavy base-camp mentality to more backpacking style. Would probably cut back on trips requiring us to haul canoes, etc.

I have had the ARC CPR course and the AHA CPR course (through work) and found the AHA version more comprehensive and realistic.

Thanks Seattle, Have done BALOO and am pretty trained up but not for ITOLS. Gonna catch up at Summer Camp I hope. I have pretty much have had to learn everything from scratch since Tigers. Scouts is harder than Cubs as in Cubs it was easier to keep ahead of the boys. In Boy Scouts some of the boys are really good at the skills --firemaking and knots-- that it is hard for me to practice because of work and church commitments. My scout widow wife balks at me taking extra weekends for training. I read and research a lot on the subjects but that is no substitute for doing. I may always f

Too much emphasis on the Eagle: I want my boys to learn good skills, be good citizens, and have fun. I feel insecure too. I was "asked to leave" the Webelos during the Vietnam war when a den leader did not believe in dissent. We never camped and it was boring but now have to learn all of these skills for the first time with the boys.

I keep thinking neckers are girls you parked with.

Singlemom, I am sorry for your son's experience. My son has asbergers, OCD, and a cluster of other issues. Scouts has been a great confidence builder for him. He often will do things I do not think he is capable of for other adults. We had some bully issues as well and dealt with them. Some of that is the nature of boys. I I agree with the others that you should: (1) Find another Troop -- they are all a little different and some are better fits than others. I moved from one pack to another because I didn't like the leadership and my boys and I had a much greater experience. You would

Suggested addition: (Found this on UK site on caving grades) --------------------- Breakfast grading system: GRADE 1 Easy breakfast with no real dangers or difficuties, eg Corn Flakes GRADE 2 Easy breakfast with minor difficulties, eg Corn Flakes and toast GRADE 3 Moderate breakfast with some difficulties but no real hazards; eg porridge with black treacle, toast and peanut butter GRADE 4 Difficult breakfast with considerable difficulties and/or hazards requiring a certain amount of skill and/or stamina; eg sausages, beans, fried bread, fried eggs. GRADE 5 Severe br

If the boys are wild sometimes you are "playing school" too long and they are bored. I agree that some physical activity is essential. Play a lot of games. Sometimes the boys will spin out of control. If you have other helpers have them try to redirect some of the problem boys. I had some Tiger/Wolf meetings I thought were total disasters --total chaos-- and later got feedback that they were the best ever.

Congratulations! I did 2 terms of Tiger Leaders. They are so cute and easily impressed. ( I did get boos and "your boring".) For Tigers you need a lot of short different material 5-8 minutes each. Play 2-3 games a night. Balloon stomp was popular plus Indian wrestling. Anything that is something that is a little too boyish to be played in school these days. Let them yell every once in a while. They like some crafts but really need help. Bring in a real live boy scout to teach demonstrate some scout skills....we had an eagle show how to use and paddle a canoe. That was a big hit. We also h

I agree with one night. I was with 2 different packs with my son and on the 2 night camp-outs 90% of the families stayed one night. We moved from 4 to 3 to 2 Pack campouts a season over the years for the same issues. Group cooking is a must as some families are intimidated by that and the on-cookers can bring the chips, etc. Also you need a lot of programmed activities or today's parents will see it as a waste of time. If the boys are busy and the parents get to relax they seem much more favorable. Sadly many parents today are very wimpy and many have never been camping. Most of

I am an ASM with 2 Boy Scouts. I spent of the first campouts kicking them out of adult's "officer country"' the irony is that some campouts I only see him on the trip home. I think he still appreciates knowing "I'm in the area". I would consider getting trained as ASM but do not go on every campout. If you have enough ASM's you can spread the load around to reduce "Scout-widowhood".

I second the Eureka Timberline. They are a bit heavy but can be split up among several boys. They are reasonably priced and are pretty "scout proof". They are a bit hot...an issue in Florida. I have a lighter weight Eureka Apex for myself (it is easy for 1 person to set up at night and it is lighter. I used both tents with my Webelos to practice setting up tents and I found that the Apex was more likely to get damaged by boys. The Timberline has aluminum poles which still work if bent. The problem with tents is that after folks get some camping under your belt your tastes

As a retiring Cub leader I got some nice cards, some gift cards to go out dining with my Scout widow wife BUT the BEST gift was some photos of "my boys" and one of me teaching them the Boy Scout Oath. Not all of them are going on to Boy Scouts so I will miss that group.

Sorry that belonged on another thread.

Mn Scout That seems an equitable division of cost. We do have a few extra packs just in case. That said packs seem a matter of personal preference. The shared tent system has not been that successful in our Troop. Boys seem to take better care of their own tents --though that was a failure of our Quartermaster to stay on top. Seems like the Troop tents are always missing stakes, rainfly's, poles. We one time had 3 troop tents with no poles on a campout(we told 'em --tough--figure it out)