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zuzy

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  1. sighhhhh, Sunday seems so long away. And that is even "if" there is a meeting. Yes, SPL's dad is looking for another troop. He knows how a few of them operate and the boys and leaders. SPL is going to wait for Sunday to see how things go, if he can get his application signed. If not, he is going to call three different troops and speak with the SMs. He told me he is now a troop-hopper, one that is not look upon very greatly in scouting and he does not like it. He would've have liked to stay in his old troop if only sports and scouts could have lived happily together.. Hubby is cons
  2. Son "is" trying to change the troop. His last troop was a very good troop. Very well oiled, had some chunks but for the most part a really nice troop. THIS is where he learned how it "can" be in scouts and wants to help this troop get there. But the adults are stopping him, this is,where the dislike comes in. I just had a heart to heart with him about 3 hours ago and he told me before I could tell him. " MOM, I need to get off this bus, but I don't know how". He read a book given to him from his football coach, "The Energy Bus". And in the book it tells you that if the energy on the b
  3. SPL was instructed from SM at PLC to find out from scout, what he needed to earn first class and put that on the meeting pln. Said scout is,also the scribe and should have been at PLC but never shows up. After getting requirements SPL was to figure out what would be needed from troop trailer or home to teach scout. But because scout did not return emails or phone calls, SPL could not put it on the meeting plan. When SM received meeting plan, was not pleased that the requirements for the scouts needed were not on the plan. So my son SPL, was scolded again for something he had no control
  4. No, not at all. Council got wind that they don't even have COHS and only elect once a year in January. So council told them to start doing elections biyearly. Hubby is unit commissioner. They are not pleased with hubby and seems like son is paying for it. Who knows if they will actually even have the COH the way they do things. Actually son was,doing a great job working with the other scouts and has two of them ready to rank up right now. Something the other SPL have not been doing the past three years. One scout still does not have first class and he has been in the troop 3 yea
  5. When the scout has SMC does the troop do a board of review for the rank BEFORE the actual Eagle board of review. In the scout book, there is a spot that needs to be checked off for SMC and the a board of review below needs to be checked off.
  6. Mr. Bob, SM already treats son like crappie. Mainly because son wants to be a real SPL and lead. I am so sad about this,whole thing right now. Hubby found out SM never even took Oak leaf, so how,is he,qualified to lead? He has had this troop now,for going on 4 years with a man exodus of families 3 years ago.
  7. The ASM And SM have made it very clear that he is to do what THEN want and HOW they want. Everything son does is,wrong and they let him know it. All the boys are scolded repeatedly. Even the SM son swears at him and calls him names put of ear shot.
  8. Son has ALL requirements...only needs SM conference and signatures on application. He is just tired on being pushed around, not lead, pushed like a little Marrionette. And when he tries to be assertive and try to be a,real SPL, he is put in his place by the ASM And SM. They dont do things here that way he is told. He just wants his signatures and to be done, and it just is not happening. The meeting g is,supposed to be after their campout that evening on Sunday and this troop has been known to cancel meetings on a whim. Football games, nice day, bad day, holiday etc...he cannot pin
  9. The drama continues. Son Still does not have SMC or board of review for Eagle. SM is nitpicking at meeting plans son sent to him. Have not had PLC in three months. Called one this week. Told son to have meeting plan written up and email to SM the next night. Meeting is the 24th, next Sunday. Son could not put the details in plan because the scout he was supposed to get first class requirements needed from will not get back to son (SPL). Son sent what info he had and SM sent back email stating he wanted the details for scout needing first class requirements on sheet, why weren't they
  10. Someone asked what son's Eagle project was... He rebuilt and rehung a sliding barn door, also removed and replaced the railing for a place that provides hippo therapy (horses) for people with disabilities. He himself did the horse therapy when he was 6 years old at this place. Giving back. The door measures 10' x12' and was done with carsidling, tongue and groove pine set onto a frame made by scratch. All of this was done in February with negative temps. Fortunately, the barn door was an inner door and all were protected from the elements although it did drop down bitterly cold when
  11. You are quite right Qwase, the schedule did not work at all at the last troop. Thanks for the check Just an impatient mama here. Could not do SMC at camp because all the blue cards were not registered at council. They were supposed to be, but the last one was held up. Still is not registered. He turned it in to SM on the 6th of June and Advancement chair nabbed it on the 7th and she said she would register it while they were at camp. Changed her mind and said she will do it after the committee meeting this week with all other badges earned at camp. So, still kind of waaitng on last
  12. Basketball doesn't really take priority. Plcs have been on Mondays and this,adult run troop now wants to schedule one for a Thursday on the 14th which just so happens to be an away school basketball tournament that was scheduled in April. It has gone this way for the past 4 years. Sports says they want priority and Scouts says they want priority. Son is on the Eagle door and SM is not making it easy. Yes, I understand all these people are volunteers, but there could be at least a rhyme or reason to doing things. This troop seems to operate on whims.
  13. SM said he will be out of town the day of this,weeks meeting. Wants to schedule a PLC on thec14th. Plcs are usually Mondays. Told son maybe they could talk then . BUT son has a basketball tournament 1 hour away that evening and won't be able to attend plc....sigh.
  14. Hi all, son went to camp on crutches and did great. Wished he could say he had a good time, ASM was on him the whole week because he,did not agree with the golf cart. Also made the whole week miserable for the entire troop. Son says,ASM makes them do everything perfect and cannot have any fun.....he so wants to eagle and find a new troop. Speaking of Eagle...son turned 15 today. Has all badges needed, has project done, written, and signed by SM. ASM at camp belittled my son, he is the SPL and told the SM that he did not agree that son is,EAGLE material. He is toooooo young and does n
  15. Son wants to go, Dad is going, he is Unit commisioner, was going to go anyway to help keep an eye on the troop. So, I guess it's a go and hail mary. thanks guys.
  16. Aye Carumba. Dad will have a golf cart and take him from all points A-B. He said that he is going to be with son most of the week and is going to watch him. Not sure if I want them to go..............
  17. Thanks Qwazse. This is sons fourth time on crutches in as many years. Sports, gotta love 'em.
  18. Hi there, son had MRi on wounded knee in basketball and it shows a deep bone bruise. Needs to use crutches for 4 weeks, no weight bearing on that leg. Scout camp starts this Sunday. His dad has a golf cart lined up to scoot him where he needs to go, but what about other stuff? Waiting in line to eat. goofing around on the grass, possible falls? What would your suggestions be, please? Don't be shy.
  19. Hi all, sorry it has taken so long to get this posted. Last day of school was Wednesday, son fell and hurt his knee pretty bad playing basketball on Monday, mri tonight, other son, wellll, that's another story. Son went to speak with SM on Monday after school. SM was very pleased with son's work book and commented on all the detail. Also spoke to him about his Livit for NYLT. Son forgot to ask for a BOR for the Livit, so he still needs to do that. Not sure when it can be done, this troop is pretty much DONE with meetings for the summer, have not had a meeting since mid April as well b
  20. NYLT beads are kind of like junior woodbadge. He did nylt here last year and all the boys,we're to write up a statement at the end of the week how scouting is impacting their lives and what project they could do with/for the troop in the following 18 months. The boys needed to plan, impliment, and carry out something for the troop. Also, the scout needed to write a personal plan and follow it for about three months. All of this needed to be put into a report which the SM needs to sign and then the scour can be awarded his beads. BUT this needs to be finished before earning Eagle so therefo
  21. Beevah, he would love to take his stuff to the next meeting, but as of right now, don't know when they will be having one. Scout camp is the 19th thru the25th. You'll think they would have one before hey?
  22. Son will be 15 in July and a sophomore next year. After Eagle, he would very much like to stay in scouting. It's just that he will not "have" to attend all meetings and be accounted for like before Eagle. He would like to earn palms. We just want him to finish up now because the coaches are not so pleasant about missing games and practces. He has had to choose between sports and scouts now since 5th grade. He wants to please both, but it is becoming increasingly harder. He is going to be on JV basketball and football probably a starter on both.
  23. Thank you guyssss! I am in tears right now. I am just so soos soo soooo ugh . The other rug rat is acting up as well and man oh man. I tell you. I did tell him to pick up his boot straps, that he has come so far, done such a wonderful job and DESERVES this award. I know that some are called "paper eagles", this one is not. He earned it, hubby and I would have it no other way. It's just that I think it's the end of school, exams, he likes this girl and is afraid to ask her out, has practice for basketball, and commitment for football and WANTS to do scouts, but this troop is so lead a
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