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  1. Iwas reading this thread agian after some time away, and some rumination.  A thought struck me:the mood for Cubs to be coed seems to be lukewarm-ish, the Boy Scout program is where a lot of the hang ups come. so, Make Cubs coed, drop the age limit for Veturers to match Boy Scouts, and give boys the choice of Boy Scouts or Venturing, and Girls go to Venturing, add rank to Venturing to parallel Scouts. . .then we can Have Eagles and Venturing Hawks (or whatever you name the award)

  2. My son, a trumpeter in his school band and now has all the pieces he needs.  He got a Bugle for Christmas, he has the Merit badge book, a MBC in the Troop, and a soon to be educated SPL who will have fun making his new Bugler work, and he and I downloaded all the music for the MB required calls, 15 in all.

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  3. The thread seems to have broken down in a "T-FC skills vs Merit Bdge" type argument.  Unless I am wrong, and I know you will correct me if I am, the goal of every Scout is First Class. Which requires ZERO Merit Badges. So I guess I am missing the point of this discussion.  It is as it always has been.  The boys should be instructed and mentored to achieve First Class, then it is up to the boy to decide what, if any, interests, through Merit Badges,  and Rank advancements he decides to pursue.

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  4. I'm not too familiar with how they are running the STEM program. The other programs are open to girls who are 14+ and even then, there are exclusions. Male venturers can join OA but females can't because...envelope please... OA is a BOY scout program and girls are not allowed in our clubhouse until they turn 21 and register as adults. 

     Nope, Male Venturers CANNOT join OA, unless they are also registered in a Boy Scout Troop and Elected through the Troop. The  way to OA is through a Troop.

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  5. Greetings and salutations from a fellow New Englander, Unit Commissioner Wannalancit District, Daniel Webster Council, NH.  I wish you all the best and hope you get lots of information from this virtual campfire,

    Grab a cuppa, warm up next to the glow and have fun!

  6. @@gumbymaster,  I like to think so.  I'm pretty much open to most anything.  I like everyone.  But I'll always voice my opinion if asked. When you're as ugly as I am, it's hard to be judgmental of others.

    I feel the same way!  I think sitting down for a cuppa around a campfire would be entertaining!  If you are ever in New Hampshire. . .I am buying.

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  7. I would have to disagree.  I would love to look like a model or have the ability to fly but it's never going to happen.  I can't just decide that I feel like I can fly and then jump off a building and have it be true.  Sorry, life doesn't work that way.  I have no problem with people who decide they want to be a different gender or race or animal (Yes, that happens) but don't force that on others.  Just because they want to be a boy doesn't mean that they are.  And it sure as heck doesn't mean that others need to accept that.  I would never force myself into a group that I don't belong in just because I want to be in it.

    I will allow you your ignorance, wish you well in your endeavors, hope you continued sucess in being an "all around trouble maker" and bid you good day.  I SAID GOOD DAY!

  8. Except that they are not a boy.  And they never truly can be.  This is a program for boys only.  To help them become men.  If a person can never become a man, then this is not something they should be involved in.  I understand that someone might want to be included, there have been girls who desperately want to be in Boy Scouts and earn Eagle.  I feel bad for them, but I would not let them in.  I might love aspects of certain girls only clubs or organizations, but I would never force myself into one just because I want to be thought of as a girl.   I understand that some people think that they can just "feel" like a boy and think that they are one, but in reality that's not how it works. 

    I pray that you never have to see the anguish, self loathing, depression, confusion and struggles, that a transgender person feels, having watched it first hand, having it leading to the death of a very good friend at her own hand, I know what she went through.  Essentially disowned by her family, shunned by the public, and called every name you can think of, I can only think that if this policy change allows ONE youth to LIVE to be happy and well adjusted as an adult, then it is a success.

     

    This is not a choice that they make.  They do not choose to be outcasts in society, they do not choose to be ridiculed, they do not choose to be told just deal with it. A little understanding and compassion goes a long way.

     

    A Scout is Kind

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  9. SO again I will tilt at windmills. . .

    This policy applies to BOYS who live, act and identify as BOYS (regardless of genitalia).

    IF you get a TG scout applying to your Troop, you may know that they are TG but you also may not. 

    If it is up to the TG Scout enrolling, they most likely would NOT want you to know.

    THEY ARE A BOY.

    THEY WANT TO BE TREATED AS A BOY.

    TREAT THEM AS A BOY.

     

    The rest is adult crap.

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  10. Having read through this, the crux of the posts are a variation of "SHE SHOULD NOT BE ALLOWED" (emphasis is mine).

    Now, if this is a trensgender boy, having lived as a "boy", identifying as a "boy", acting dressing and playing like a "boy" are you even going to know who this is?

    that is the point of this.  Right now we are excluding boys who want to be in Scouts because their birth certificate does not match their gender identity.  Aren't we in this to help the boys be boys. That is what this is allowing, that boy, who happens to have "wrong" genitalia, to be included with his friends in a fun character building program.

    Seems that is the Courteous thing to do. Kind, Friendly and Brave apply too.

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  11. So, with due precision, BSA, and not just a unit, can remove a Scouter from participation in a unit as a necessary consequence of barring participation in any unit.  

     

    From Rules and Regulations of the Boy Scouts of America

     

    "Registration and participation in Scouting is a privilege that may be denied, limited, or terminated when determined to be in the best interest of Scouting."

     

    "To be eligible for registration, a Scouter must agree to: subscribe to the Scout Oath; fulfill the obligations of his or her position; and perform his or her duties in accordance with the Rules and Regulations, policies, and guidelines of the Boy Scouts of America."

     

    "Unit leaders must be selected and approved by the chartered organization and are subject to the approval of the local council and the Boy Scouts of America."

     

    "As a private, membership organization, the Boy Scouts of America has the right to set standards of membership and leadership. That right includes the ability to deny, expire, revoke, or otherwise limit or bar registration or affiliation with the Boy Scouts of America or any local council or any other affiliated organization. The general procedure for maintaining those standards is expressed in a publication titled Procedures for Maintaining Standards of Membership and Leadership; however, nothing contained therein limits the ability of the Boy Scouts of America to take such action as it may deem appropriate in its sole discretion."

    Yes, you are 100% accurate regarding the fact that BSA can remove a leader for all of SCouting, thus removing them from ALL units that they may be associated. For an individual to be removed from a SPECIFIC Unit that power lies within the Chartering Oganization.  

    See, we are both right!

    Can we stop splitting hairs now?

     

    ;-)

  12.  "The Chartering Org is the only group with authority to remove a leader from a Scouting Unit. "

     

    If you are referring to a Scoutmaster, for example, not really.   That is why we have to "apply" for membership on Form 524-501.

    I am referring to a Scoutmaster, ASM etc, The Chartering Org is the only one who can remove a leader from the UNIT, BSA can remove the from SCOUTING all together.

  13. Shift,

     

    After reading this post, from what I have gleaned, I have a question: Are you expecting the BSA to fulfill the role that the Chartering Organization contracturally agreed to fulfill?

    The Chartering Org signs the Charter every year agreeing among other things, the assumption of responsibility for the Unit and its leaders.  The Chartering Org is the only group with authority to remove a leader from a Scouting Unit.  If the CO has abdicated their obligation, it is not then the responsibility of BSA to pick up their slack If there is proof (at this point we have allegations) present it to the DE or SE. Otherwise, the CO has chosen to let the issue drop. That is their right to do so.

  14. I am a very active Unit Commisosioner and active at the district level.  My son is very active in his Troop, so I try to stay out of his way.  This year at Recharter time I asked my son to come and help during the day (running errands and helping to eat the donuts).  On the way home I was asking how his day was, he told me he had a good day but wanted to thank me, I asked for what, he said for "doing all that boring paperwork and stuff so we [the Scouts] can just have fun."
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    PAID IN FULL! 

  15. Whoever taught them? Like maybe the scouter who takes his cues from Scouting? Go to the OP above, follow the link to the article, generate a word histogram, and let us know the number of synonyms of handbook, reference, literature, or reading you find. (I could tell you how many I found, but my count may be biased.)

     

    To be clear: if you have boys who are teaching other boys more efficiently than their counterparts did ten years ago, we all would benefit from hearing about it. It's just that from what I've seen, the emperor has no clothes.

     

    So let me get this straight. A ​Magazine article​ is your source of knowledge on this?!?!? The article does reference the Troop Leader Guidebook as to where the excerpt came from, but if you are basing your argument against EDGE on a magazine article, then I am not even to engage in further discussion as you are equating a magazine article​ to training, Hey I read an article about brain surgery so I must be able to do it right? Maybe read the referenced materials in the article, maybe, here is a crazy idea, take EDGE training and learn about it, or heck maybe even look up the syllabus online.

     

    If a Scouter is "taking his cues" only from magazine articles and not seeking other sources of knowledge and education, I am not surprised the message is not being conveyed appropriately.

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